Saturday, May 14, 2011

GAME \ PUA Now A Necessity



One thing is for sure about the formulation of comedy, exemplifications or disclosures of simple unspoken truths make us laugh.

Though presented in an exaggerated form consistent with comedy, what we witnessed in the video is nothing short of the acknowledgement of the increasing relevance that Game and PUA play in contemporary culture within gender relations. It has become part of the ever increasing construct of our "Hook Up Culture" and contemporary dating, a staple of our ever growing matriarchal female dominated society. Hook Up Culture???...don't look at me, I didn't coin the term, sociologists have and they have done so for good reason. Things have changed.....

I showed the video to my grandparents, they didn't understand the elemental truth (comedy) that makes this funny to people my age. They were somewhat put off and appalled. However, I and many others my age understand it right away.

Game and PUA are nothing short of a brilliant adaptation of males to a mating dynamic which has changed drastically in the last 45 years since female "independence". It is female "independence" and "liberation" that has caused this behavior. This is so because the whole point of feminism is to lower relative male value, status and necessity to women through "female empowerment". This is also done through the leveraging of female sexuality through the use of birth control technologies which have opened a flood gate to something never seen before by the natural mating dynamic. Game simply places men back where women want them...on top and worthy.

Is the implementation of the "negging" aspects of Game an expression of male anger, male resentment, male disrespect of women...no not at all though I do imagine that a large segment of males left out and disenfranchised from our now unfettered hypergamous polyandrous mating dynamic have embraced it whole heatedly. Understand however that the above video is simply an exaggeration and exemplification of Game behavior that is ordinarily employed in a much more nuanced, complicated and elaborate fashion.  

Game is simply an expression towards the intended ends of appealing to female hypergamy or the instinct of females to seek out men of higher status, strength, intelligence, resource potential and over all, men who have more dominance than they have. Why are men of all statures increasingly employing Game, faining alpha characteristics or presenting a "bad boy" thuggish downplay of female status you ask....because it works now a days.

Courtship and courtly chivalry toward todays woman (who is more educated, of higher status and earning more resources than the men around her) is beta, it makes you unworthy. Men who are not more dominant than the women around them can learn Game and those who are of higher status than women already exhibit their dominance and employ aspects of Game behavior naturally. These men may even be dominate enough to exhibit courtly chivalry without being beta. Think you got a shot at a true alpha male ladies...fat chance, they are in hog heaven banging women on a nightly basis. Why won't these men or any men for that matter commit you ask...what is the point of that? What man wants to have the one way liability commitment of a feminist marriage 2.0 then get raped in family court....not many. Marriage is no longer about men, it's about a woman and HER children.



For the majority of you the competition is tight, instead you will be stuck asking where all the good men are and unable to secure your own. Ahhh yes, I see those skirts getting shorter and shorter : ). However, many men can no longer afford to behave with chivalry or courtly love. It is women themselves who no longer allow it. Women are to dominant to allow this now a days. Men are figuring this out. In fact I venture to say that courtly love and chivalry is dead.

In todays environment, with women being more equal or simply equal to the men around them, the only way to appeal to them is to be "more equal" than they are. This is so especially if you are not only not above them but equal or below them in the above aspects of dominance.

I'd like to tell you a story, I was out on the town some months back enjoying the night life. I went to the bar to order a drink. While waiting to order I hear a female voice in my right ear, "buy me a drink?, a Sex On The Beach" without ever looking over or turning my head to evaluate her I lean over to the right and say "excuse me". She repeats herself again....My reply, "No thank you" I say as I look at her for the first time and without hesitation to even evaluate her attractiveness first. Her response was predictable....instant attraction, what PUAs call the Gina Tingles.

Mmmmm she was hot to! However, I let her go. I no longer participate in any of this or at least try to get laid as little as possible. Sound crazy....not under the matriarchal construct of rampant hypergamous rotating polyandry it isn't. I've decided to drop out to avoid the risks matriarchy presents. It can kill you dead and if it doesn't what are the chances that any of these women are any longer fertile??? I'm looking for something more traditional...I know...fat chance right lol.

UPDATE FROM THE COMMENTS SECTION: Is it really that hard for you to believe that women come up to men and ask them to buy them drinks?

Do you know that she was not necessarily attracted to me to begin with but was simply beta testing men to get drinks out of them. Is it so hard for you to believe women do this? I am teaching men how to deal with it because I guarantee you that there are plenty of young men who would have opened their wallet. There are plenty of young men who have nobody else but other men to help them.

You see, Game \ PUA in American culture came from a very fitting place to formulate its necessity, the female dominated matriarchy of the black (African American) community. Black men coined the term, they coined the methodology and soon Thug\Game\PUA courtship between men and women was born. It's simply an element of matriarchal society. The single mother birth rate is 70% in the black community. The black community has the highest rate of polyandry and as such, the highest rate of not only single mothers but mothers with children from multiple fathers. Abortion is also rampant in matriarchal social structures.

You see, monogamy,traditional family, fatherhood, extended courtship, chivalry, dating and commitment are relics of a once patriarchal society.

I find it amusing that women are struggling to understand it all... along with the changes they have made to society.

It reminds me of a Kay S. Hymowitz article: Love in the Time of Darwinism
"A report from the chaotic postfeminist dating scene, where only the strong survive"


And one from Tracy Clark-Flory of Salon's Online Magazine, Broadsheet:

Dudes try "dating Darwinism"
An author argues that angry young men are becoming assholes to try to get women.


More from Kay Hymowitz: Child-Men interview

All stemming from her original article in The Wall Street Journal: Where Have The Good Men Gone? "Kay S. Hymowitz argues that too many men in their 20s are living in a new kind of extended adolescence"

I always give a good read of the comments section of these articles. Many men are aware of what feminism and matriarchy are all about.

Don't despair ladies....welcome to matriarchy. As they say "Don't hate the player "bitch", hate the Game.".........

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ripped off from those male fantasy stories in Hustler magazine: "I'd like to tell you a story, I was out on the town some months back enjoying the night life. I went to the bar to order a drink. While waiting to order I hear a female voice in my right ear, "buy me a drink?, a Sex On The Beach"

The rest of the story according to Hustler: "I turned around and there were two of the hottest twins I ever saw. I went to their apartment, and we had the wildest threesome all night long......"

Great way to twist an urban legend to make yourself feel better because you can't get a woman. Good thing you left the part out about the twins because even you know no one is going to believe that one. As it is, most of your stupid MRA readers will probably think, "What a god! He's so cool, he can even turn down the hot ones so he isn't tainted by those evil feminine wiles women use to trap men!" In reality, your pissed off because you can't figure out why women don't want you. But hey, you have to save face somehow.

Bwec said...

LOL take it or leave it lady. I'm intelligent, good looking and marginally successful (compared to where I am working on being) and guess what, women are more voracious than ever.

I live in a college town lady and yes, we hook up. Why, do I sound like I'm bragging in my article....If so I take that as a compliment from a bitter woman like you.

What I played in that situation was Game. Inverse Game I guess you could call it since she was the one coming up to me to demand resources. Usually males court and offer resources to women. Women are voracious and aggressive now a days.

You are angry because I let her go. I don't hate women and I am not surrounded by an abundance of women either...I'm just not interested in "hooking up" with many modern women. If this is to hard for you to understand you need to drop your personal insults and look in the mirror. Woman like this one have danger written all over them.

Also, is this all you gained from the information in my article...bitter resentment? When you remove your anger and rage at the situation you will notice I'm not happy with the situation either. Again, if this is the only portion of my article that had any relevance to you I feel sorry for you.

Anonymous said...

"Why, do I sound like I'm bragging in my article....If so I take that as a compliment from a bitter woman like you."

Bragging? No, it sounds more like you make stuff up.

Bwec said...

Make stuff up to benefit who? Do you think I am here to boost my status as a man? Who would I be boosting my status for... you, perfect strangers?

Is it really that hard for you to believe that women come up to men and ask them to buy them drinks?

Do you know that she was not necessarily attracted to me to begin with but was simply beta testing men to get drinks out of them. Is it so hard for you to believe women do this? I am teaching men how to deal with it because I guarantee you that there are plenty of young men who would have opened their wallet. There are plenty of young men who have nobody else but other men to help them.

Do you know for who and what I am here for?

This blog is not for fairy tales. This blog is to raise awareness of social issues, it is here to help others, especially men navigate the treacherous waters we find ourselves in.

However, it is also for people like you who hopefully can gain something from it other than finding a personal and emotional angle to all this. This is not about me. Does that compute in your head yet?

Anonymous said...

"Make stuff up to benefit who? Do you think I am here to boost my status as a man?"

You answered your own question here.

" Who would I be boosting my status for... you, perfect strangers?"

Other males especially the MRA crowd. You seem to get off on it.

"Is it really that hard for you to believe that women come up to men and ask them to buy them drinks?"

Oh, I can believe that when it pertains to other men. You, OTOH, I'm not so sure.

"Do you know that she was not necessarily attracted to me to begin with but was simply beta testing men to get drinks out of them. Is it so hard for you to believe women do this?"

And those women are no different than most men who offer free drinks to women in the hopes of getting laid. If the women playing "beta" is more successful getting free drinks than men are getting laid, that's not their fault. Suck it up! Women are told we have to do that all the time.

"There are plenty of young men who have nobody else but other men to help them."

Yeah, dateless dude to the rescue!

"Do you know for who and what I am here for?"

I really don't care.

"However, it is also for people like you who hopefully can gain something from it other than finding a personal and emotional angle to all this."

Well, I'm touched by your concern Dr. Phil. Yawn!!!!

"This is not about me. Does that compute in your head yet?"

It's all about you. Your fooling yourself otherwise.

Bwec said...

I find it amusing that you feel so slighted as a woman by this situation. It really bothers you that I was able to get what I could have wanted if I wanted it. It bothers you even more that I didn't want it. It bothers you that I was in control of the situation doesn't it : ) It's a power thing for you and you can't stand it : )

You keep coming back here in hopes to establish authority over the situation.

This woman makes you feel cheap and worthless. You are trying to compensate for your feelings by attempting to evaluate me as 'not being worthy of women'. You want so badly to be able to rate me and shut me out from mating opportunity. This is a dominant narrative in your comments. It is why you keep coming back : )

You want so badly to convey your lack of approval of my worthiness to mate. This is your only source of what you believe to be power and control over me. It is your only sense of power and authority as a woman.

Try as you might it irritates you that you can't gain power over me and that I do not give you the authority to judge me "worthy" or "unworthy" of women. It infuriates you more so that it is me who judges women as worthy or unworthy of me.

You are on the wrong page lady. Telling my story in my article does nothing to boost my status. However, I managed to evoke what I was looking for from you..that is, to get you to admit that this is the way YOU view it. You have given me the answer I wanted you to reveal : )

As such, it bothers you that she was not worthy to me. In your mind it infuriates you that a man could have so much authority over what you view is the central locus of female power. It makes you feel powerless : )

You will have to deal with these feelings but I must tell you that this is not the best place for you. Men like me will not alleviate your feelings of powerlessness over this situation. There is really nothing I am willing to offer you to solve this problem.

Anonymous said...

"As such, it bothers you that she was not worthy to me. In your mind it infuriates you that a man could have so much authority over what you view is the central locus of female power. It makes you feel powerless"

This girl already decided YOU weren't worthy of her. She didn't want you for sex or anything else. She just wanted a free drink. She may not have gotten "Sex On The Beach", but you weren't going to get sex on the beach, in your car, in the woods, at your place, at her place, or anywhere else. All you had was authority over whether she was going to get a free drink (in that moment). She always had authority over whether you were going to get sex or not before she even approached you. That made you feel powerless. In the end, she probably scored more than her share of free drinks while you went home sexually frustrated. Sucks to be you! As for me, I never have to play "beta", and I get more than my fair share of free drinks from men without having to do ANYTHING. Unless I want to that is.

Bwec said...

I never told you the rest of the story.

Bwec said...

You need to be ravaged don't you. The tension is in the air. I feel it from you. I already told you why you're here. I know your next move, your next thought.

You want to be taken and taken hard. You want to lose control and surrender it to me. I told you before...there is little I can do from here. The breadth of distance between us will do little to solve your longing.

Bwec said...

This is to public a place. You know where to find me.

Anonymous said...

"You need to be ravaged don't you. The tension is in the air. I feel it from you. I already told you why you're here. I know your next move, your next thought.

You want to be taken and taken hard. You want to lose control and surrender it to me. I told you before...there is little I can do from here. The breadth of distance between us will do little to solve your longing."

Yawn! I like men with experience instead of some cherry who rips off Hustler and Harlequin Romance novels.

Bwec said...

Lol...you know why you are here and you know why you are there. I know what you are after and it's not drinks : ) That's not why you do it.

Your panties are wet just thinking about it. With all your tramping around whoring drinks you secretly hope a man will not give you the validation you are looking for...and through this...validation ...need...gina tingles. You hope to be unworthy of a confident masculine man. You hope to feel grateful. You hope to feel small, vulnerable, delicate yet safe and warm under his protective gaze and within his arms. Keep looking, you are young and naive I can tell....or is it old and jaded.

You've got a little time left to try and trap a man. It's easier than supporting yourself.. especially after you leave him.

Your dependency upon men is what ails you. You love and hate yourself for it. It is where you find your power as a woman but also your weakness...through men. I expect you will do your best to to deal with this. Maybe you will surrender to it or maybe you will continue to fight it. I must tell you now..you would be wise to surrender. This is what will make you truly happy with a man.

Don't fight it...you are supposed to be complimentary to him and he to you, it's what will make you whole. Your independence and liberation is an illusion that will only bring you sorrow.

However I must warn you, men increasingly know that a complimentary relationship with women within the sanctity of marriage is no longer possible. Your gender married the State instead. You are doomed to remain in definite preclusion, the grey twilight between what could have been a natural and fully consummate bond with him. Something once untouched now sullied and desecrated.

Inside...deep within your only wish is to really need him. You hope that he will believe you do and that this lie will suffice. You want to believe it too.

Deep down You lament that this has been robbed from you. The personal consecrate and sovereign now political and public. Your nature and vulnerability laid naked and bare and surrendered to your State masters. His masters cold metallic embrace leaves you alone, hollow, wounded and empty. You cleave unto him for promises of something more.

You have sacrificed the bond of your men on the alter of your own desires for him and with this become the source your own undoing and sorrow...

Anonymous said...

Bwec,

First I'd like to commend you on the authoring of one of the best if not the best blogs on the plight of men. I love how you see both the big and the little picture. Eventually the system is going to break down and the disenfranchisement of men will be a very large part of the reason why. I'm 15 years out of divorce but still paying confiscatory child support...going on a couple hundred thousand now. Ex has no obligation to tell me how it is spent and it is not spent on our children-daughter has dropped out and son is not far behind...family court does what it is designed to do disenfranchise fathers, impoverish fathers, and build huge beauracracys to play with the money that is stolen and to employ the hordes of those graduating with the "social justice" type degrees.

Anyway, nothing is produced in this country but bullshit on one end and a soon to end Saprono's approach to countries that resist using the worthless dollar to support the bullshit enslavement of men (and in many ways women) in this country.

I ramble...I'm sorry. The site is great and anonymous might be like a lot of the women I see month after month, year after year on the free dating sites...bored and and alone because there are no available men either by choice or because they have been destroyed by the system and suffer PSTD in their own right. Keep up the great work...keep tellin' it like it is in such a well written way!

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Bwec said...

Thank you for your support brother!

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