Saturday, May 14, 2011
GAME \ PUA Now A Necessity
One thing is for sure about the formulation of comedy, exemplifications or disclosures of simple unspoken truths make us laugh.
Though presented in an exaggerated form consistent with comedy, what we witnessed in the video is nothing short of the acknowledgement of the increasing relevance that Game and PUA play in contemporary culture within gender relations. It has become part of the ever increasing construct of our "Hook Up Culture" and contemporary dating, a staple of our ever growing matriarchal female dominated society. Hook Up Culture???...don't look at me, I didn't coin the term, sociologists have and they have done so for good reason. Things have changed.....
I showed the video to my grandparents, they didn't understand the elemental truth (comedy) that makes this funny to people my age. They were somewhat put off and appalled. However, I and many others my age understand it right away.
Game and PUA are nothing short of a brilliant adaptation of males to a mating dynamic which has changed drastically in the last 45 years since female "independence". It is female "independence" and "liberation" that has caused this behavior. This is so because the whole point of feminism is to lower relative male value, status and necessity to women through "female empowerment". This is also done through the leveraging of female sexuality through the use of birth control technologies which have opened a flood gate to something never seen before by the natural mating dynamic. Game simply places men back where women want them...on top and worthy.
Is the implementation of the "negging" aspects of Game an expression of male anger, male resentment, male disrespect of women...no not at all though I do imagine that a large segment of males left out and disenfranchised from our now unfettered hypergamous polyandrous mating dynamic have embraced it whole heatedly. Understand however that the above video is simply an exaggeration and exemplification of Game behavior that is ordinarily employed in a much more nuanced, complicated and elaborate fashion.
Game is simply an expression towards the intended ends of appealing to female hypergamy or the instinct of females to seek out men of higher status, strength, intelligence, resource potential and over all, men who have more dominance than they have. Why are men of all statures increasingly employing Game, faining alpha characteristics or presenting a "bad boy" thuggish downplay of female status you ask....because it works now a days.
Courtship and courtly chivalry toward todays woman (who is more educated, of higher status and earning more resources than the men around her) is beta, it makes you unworthy. Men who are not more dominant than the women around them can learn Game and those who are of higher status than women already exhibit their dominance and employ aspects of Game behavior naturally. These men may even be dominate enough to exhibit courtly chivalry without being beta. Think you got a shot at a true alpha male ladies...fat chance, they are in hog heaven banging women on a nightly basis. Why won't these men or any men for that matter commit you ask...what is the point of that? What man wants to have the one way liability commitment of a feminist marriage 2.0 then get raped in family court....not many. Marriage is no longer about men, it's about a woman and HER children.
For the majority of you the competition is tight, instead you will be stuck asking where all the good men are and unable to secure your own. Ahhh yes, I see those skirts getting shorter and shorter : ). However, many men can no longer afford to behave with chivalry or courtly love. It is women themselves who no longer allow it. Women are to dominant to allow this now a days. Men are figuring this out. In fact I venture to say that courtly love and chivalry is dead.
In todays environment, with women being more equal or simply equal to the men around them, the only way to appeal to them is to be "more equal" than they are. This is so especially if you are not only not above them but equal or below them in the above aspects of dominance.
I'd like to tell you a story, I was out on the town some months back enjoying the night life. I went to the bar to order a drink. While waiting to order I hear a female voice in my right ear, "buy me a drink?, a Sex On The Beach" without ever looking over or turning my head to evaluate her I lean over to the right and say "excuse me". She repeats herself again....My reply, "No thank you" I say as I look at her for the first time and without hesitation to even evaluate her attractiveness first. Her response was predictable....instant attraction, what PUAs call the Gina Tingles.
Mmmmm she was hot to! However, I let her go. I no longer participate in any of this or at least try to get laid as little as possible. Sound crazy....not under the matriarchal construct of rampant hypergamous rotating polyandry it isn't. I've decided to drop out to avoid the risks matriarchy presents. It can kill you dead and if it doesn't what are the chances that any of these women are any longer fertile??? I'm looking for something more traditional...I know...fat chance right lol.
UPDATE FROM THE COMMENTS SECTION: Is it really that hard for you to believe that women come up to men and ask them to buy them drinks?
Do you know that she was not necessarily attracted to me to begin with but was simply beta testing men to get drinks out of them. Is it so hard for you to believe women do this? I am teaching men how to deal with it because I guarantee you that there are plenty of young men who would have opened their wallet. There are plenty of young men who have nobody else but other men to help them.
You see, Game \ PUA in American culture came from a very fitting place to formulate its necessity, the female dominated matriarchy of the black (African American) community. Black men coined the term, they coined the methodology and soon Thug\Game\PUA courtship between men and women was born. It's simply an element of matriarchal society. The single mother birth rate is 70% in the black community. The black community has the highest rate of polyandry and as such, the highest rate of not only single mothers but mothers with children from multiple fathers. Abortion is also rampant in matriarchal social structures.
You see, monogamy,traditional family, fatherhood, extended courtship, chivalry, dating and commitment are relics of a once patriarchal society.
I find it amusing that women are struggling to understand it all... along with the changes they have made to society.
It reminds me of a Kay S. Hymowitz article: Love in the Time of Darwinism
"A report from the chaotic postfeminist dating scene, where only the strong survive"
And one from Tracy Clark-Flory of Salon's Online Magazine, Broadsheet:
Dudes try "dating Darwinism"
An author argues that angry young men are becoming assholes to try to get women.
More from Kay Hymowitz: Child-Men interview
All stemming from her original article in The Wall Street Journal: Where Have The Good Men Gone? "Kay S. Hymowitz argues that too many men in their 20s are living in a new kind of extended adolescence"
I always give a good read of the comments section of these articles. Many men are aware of what feminism and matriarchy are all about.
Don't despair ladies....welcome to matriarchy. As they say "Don't hate the player "bitch", hate the Game.".........