Wow, Some Social Programing for Men

Hmmm, do we need advertisements like this? Just the vary fact that things like this exist tells me we have major social ills. It tells me that things are getting worse.
I've always felt that feminism is a self perpetuating ideology and actually creates the ills which it proports it is trying to eradicate. It is a kind of self compounding negative feedback loop.

Anyway, this ad suggests that not enough men are respecting women. Is this true? It might as well say "most men do not respect women" I think we have devolved to an era of mutual disrespect if you ask me. What are feminists trying to accomplish here? Is the growing disconnect between men women family and children all men's fault; feminists want you to believe that it is don't they. Does this advertisement promote the disrespect of men, I certainly think so!

Is respect something that is earned or given by blind deference? Excuse me, are they asking for chivalry??? Noooo they couldn't be, you see, anyone who knows the history of the feminist movement knows that men were told to go away and that chivalry was demeaning to women....remember?? Now the saying goes "chivalry is dead". Indeed chivalry IS DEAD! You see, feminism is a paradoxical self perpetuating ideology. Women are more sexualized than ever before in our history. Feminism divides men and women and creates the very disrespect and consequences of disrespect they say they so revile.

As you will see from the marriage, divorce and single woman birth rates of 40%, If not reveled, honored and respected as wife and mother what has woman become???


To me the add is a masterful work of brainwashing and social programming not unlike what I see other places in the American social culture. It is asking for a blind deference to women. I would love to hear my readers comments. What does this ad mean to you? What is the significance of the boys orange shirt in an urban setting? What association do you think orange clothing has to an urban male?

Here is what the Thesaurus has to say:

Main Entry: respect
Part of Speech: noun
Definition: admiration given by others
Synonyms: account, adoration, appreciation, approbation, awe, consideration, courtesy, deference, dignity, esteem, estimation, favor, fear, homage, honor, obeisance, ovation, recognition, regard, repute, reverence, testimonial, tribute, veneration, worship

Main Entry: respect
Part of Speech: verb
Definition: admire; obey
Synonyms: abide by, adhere to, adore, appreciate, attend, be awed by, be kind to, comply with, defer to, esteem, follow, have good opinion of, have high opinion, heed, honor, look up to, note, notice, observe of, pay attention, recognize, regard, revere, reverence, set store by, show consideration, show courtesy, spare, take into account, think highly of, uphold, value, venerate

After reading the above definitions, do you think women should be given these things by men because of their gender or do you think they need to earn respect first? Do you think men should open doors for women they do not know, protect women they do not know and even die for women they do not know? Are women and girls more valuable than men and boys? What aspects of respect are women asked by society to bestow upon men exactly??? What does society urge women to do for men or to show respect to men???

What about marriage and even after divorce, do women have responsibilities and obligations to men and if so do these responsibilities embody some semblance of respect or obligation to men? Or have divorce and family law made marriage and therefore the contract of divorce superflurious and inconsequential to women?


Would it be possible to tell women along with eating their vegetables and doing their homework that they should respect and obey men? And by the very existence of this ad it presents an authority statement to people that not enough women are respecting men and obeying men as they should. Would this be ok to do?

Does the nature of this advertisement remind anyone of social programming and propaganda distributed by totalitarian regimes, dictatorships and fascists? What effect upon men do you believe ads and messages throughout our culture will have upon them upon being continually exposed to such social programming? What do you believe the real aim of this advertisement is? What is this ad really trying to accomplish? What message does it send about men to others and what does it tell men about themselves? Comments?

Here is another one to ponder: What does it mean when we label little boys as the inevitable abusers of women?

Are modern day relationships giving men excuses to escape from responsibilities?

Are modern day relationships giving men excuses to escape from responsibilities?

WOW A PLETHORA OF OPINION HERE FROM BOTH MEN AND WOMEN IN AN EXCELLENT FORMAT. DON'T TAKE THE POLL RESULTS AS THE VERDICT AS SOME OF THE ANSWERS WILL SURPRISE YOU.

VERY GOOD READING:

http://www.helium.com/debates/183276-are-modern-day-relationships-giving-men-excuses-to-escape-from-responsibilities

Symbols of Men's and Father's Rights

Every successful movement needs a symbol to rally by. With the growth of the Men's and Father's Rights Movement certain symbols are becoming instantly recognizable. It is of utmost importance, as the movement grows, that what ever symbol eventually takes precedent that it be displayed on cars, on shirts, on flyers and everywhere else.

Below are several symbols displayed by several elements of the Movement. I think it is of great importance that a single symbol take precedent that unites us all under one banner, one purpose.

FATHERS FOR JUSTICE:



MGTOW: MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY BANNER


MGTOW: MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY BANNER 2



WORKING IN THE COMPUTER INDUSTRY MYSELF I REALIZE THE IMPORTANCE OF THE GOOGLE DATABASE ALGORITHM RETURNING 52,500,000 RESULTS FOR MEN GOING THEIR OWN WAY. THIS IS AN ASTOUNDING NUMBER. GOOGLE HAS A WORLD CLASS DATABASE AND PREDICTIVE ANALYSIS ALGORITHM THAT HAS EVEN BEEN USED TO PREDICT DISEASE SPREAD AND TRACK SUCH VECTORS AND MANY OTHER THINGS. IT DIVIDED DIVORCE INTO SEPARATE RESULTS BY DIFFERENT SUBJECT MATTER WITHIN THAT CATEGORY BUT WHEN ADDED UP WE HAVE THE BELOW RESULTS.. THE DATABASE SCOURS THE INTERNET AND FORMULATES IT'S BEST PREDICTION ON WHERE IT THINKS MEN ARE GOING OR CURRENTLY EXPERIENCING IN THEIR LIVES FOR THE TERM GOING. GIVEN THE RAW DATA IT COLLECTS. THE QUERY "MEN GOING" BRINGS US THE FOLLOWING PREDICTIONS...

I WAS VERY DELIGHTED AND BLOWN AWAY BY HOW PREDOMINATE THE MOVEMENT IS BECOMING! THE RESULTS DO NOT SUGGEST NECESSARILY THAT MGTOW IS THE TENET OF CENTRAL THOUGHT BEHIND THE MOVEMENT BUT THAT IT HAS BEEN RECOGNIZED AND TALKED ABOUT AMONG MEN THROUGHOUT THE MOVEMENT. IT DOES HELP TO QUANTIFY THE GROWTH OR SIZE OF THE MOVEMENT.


#1 GOING THEIR OWN WAY 52,500,000-RELATED TO MEN'S AND FATHER'S RIGHTS MOVEMENT

#2 THROUGH THE CHANGE 9,860,000-PROBABLY RELATED TO OUR LARGE POPULATION OF BABY BOOMERS

#3 DIVORCE 5,860,000 -THIS IS IN THE TOP RESULTS FOR OBVIOUS REASONS (Two results showed up which were added together)

NOW, try it yourself..It's been a little bit since this article has been written..Type in MGTOW and see the number of results now! Men generally don't like to fight women...In droves we are simply walking away.......What a shame but I'm very glad that men are finding themselves and defining their lives without women and a family.....Men don't have a right to a family or children anyway, that's something women control... Why bother...



THESE OTHERS RELATE TO MEN'S FASHION AND THE LAST ONE PERTAINS TO PROPAGANDA THAT MEN ARE GOING TO DIE OFF AND GO EXTINCT.

I've looked into the "men going extinct" and found it benign feminist propaganda that has been used within feminist circles and surprisingly quite widely disseminated into popular culture. It was also published in the New York Times Columnist Maureen Dowd's recent book Are Men Necessary?

This propaganda was so widely disseminated as evidenced by the google predictive analysis database algorithms but also Forbes Magazine, a primarily financial and business journal, felt it necessary to interrupt our daily commute with a page or more of top MIT science studies to reassure us men that we are ok and not going extinct. http://www.forbes.com/2005/08/31/male-sex-chromosome-cz_rl_0831male.html

ARTICLES PERTAINING TO "THE END OF MEN" AND "MEN GOING EXTINCT" ARE SIMPLY A PART OF THE MISANDRY AND CONTEMPT EVIDENT IN SOCIETY FOR MEN AND BOYS.

GOING OUT CLOTHS 4,790,000
EXTINCT 2,930,000

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UPDATE!!!

WOW ANOTHER MEN'S AND FATHER'S RIGHTS ACTIVIST NOTICED THE SAME QUITE SOME TIME AGO IN AUGUST OF 08.

By One Man's Kingdom | Source | August 20, 2008
In Cultural Creep, which I posted in February, I mentioned that I had done a Google search of the term 'MGTOW' and 23,600 results were returned.

A Google search on the same term today returns 41,200 results - an increase of 75% in only 6 months. If only my stocks had done so well.

I've been checking every week or so in the interim, and the growth has been steady over that period. I'd have to say that the climate has already altered since then, with writers like Stephen Baskerville, Steve Moxon and Kathleen Parker getting some serious attention. Comment counts on Glenn Sacks blog have gone astronomical, with some threads attracting over 600. Here in NZ, the incumbent Feminist government looks set to be trounced in the impending October/November election, with the likely conservative opposition party promising to end welfare to single mothers as soon as their youngest goes to school.

The ice is thawing.

Topics: One Man's Kingdom | Comments

ANTI FEMINIST PROTESTS IN MALI

The below news report was taken from Feministing.com, the popular third wave feminist site for young women. Much of third wave feminism incorporates spreading feminism around the world.

"Tens of thousands of people in Mali's capital, Bamako, have been protesting against a new law which gives women equal rights in marriage.
The law, passed earlier this month, also strengthens inheritance rights for women and children born out of wedlock.
Sigh. Perhaps even more depression-inducing is this quote from Hadja Sapiato Dembele of the National Union of Muslim Women's Associations: "A man must protect his wife, a wife must obey her husband...It's a tiny minority of women here that wants this new law - the intellectuals. The poor and illiterate women of this country - the real Muslims - are against it."

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MY RESPONSE BELOW that I was unable to post there as for some reason it will not let me register. I am not sure if they blocked my IP or what. I have to post under the guise of a woman there as speech is highly censored on this site. As you may well know comment approval censorship is rampant on feminist sites or videos.

"The law, passed earlier this month, also strengthens inheritance rights for women and children born out of wedlock."


"A man must protect his wife, a wife must obey her husband"

So the law states by inference that a man is no longer required to protect, provide and make decisions that lead to these ends that the wife is supposed to support in earnest.

This is a real important step toward independence for women there! So the forced transference of inheritance of the man's wealth to a woman that has not married him and to a child that was born out of wedlock in this relationship is a great idea. It reminds me of our no-fault divorce law as well as alimony and child support.

It reminds me of what Vickie said over at thridage.com (http://www.thirdage.com/living-single/why-some-women-will-never-get-married "Vickie of Orlando e-mailed, "I receive a nice alimony check each month, eventually 50 percent of his Social Security, and upon his death, hundreds of thousands in life insurance. So why would I even think of getting married again?"

So since they have passed the law it looks like she does not even have to marry him to get inheritance and has all the rights out of wedlock. We need more laws like this here that help women and their children get support from men in or out of marriage. Here in the U.S. we have to marry first and as long as we don't remarry after divorce and meeting our new suitor and provider we get support from the old one as well. Why should women be forced into any arrangement with men and not be supported by them!!! I think it's a good law and I support the intellectual women there who came up with it. Men and government have the obligation to support independent women. We should not have to commit to men or family in order to support ourselves and our children.

Does the law create a reciprocal obligation that the woman has to do for the man in this arrangement? I think it seems fair on the surface but what does he get? I mean I suppose bearing children for him is something he gets. If she leaves him does she take the children as well like in the U.S. and other western nations? I mean I don't want to offend anyone but I'm just looking at both sides here..

It is no wonder "tens of thousands" of women and people are protesting this. These women value the sacred commitment of marriage and family, they honor and respect their husbands and their family. Give it time though, marriage, family and fatherhood will be destroyed there as well..

It seems to me that feminists are trying to build a culture of mutual disrespect between men and women. Resentment and disrespect is a reciprocal and compounding issue. This law is surely going to build resentment and disrespect toward women who are now able to rape men of their money out of wedlock.

Feministing: One Woman's Experience

Below is a letter a young woman wrote to the popular third wave feminist site Feministing.com. It serves to demonstrate how women are being indoctrinated to view themselves as the victims of men and society, incites the view of relations between men and women as a marxist class struggle and furthermore cultivates misandry, hatred and contempt of men and boys. She is beginning to see "patriarchy" in all her interactions with men. Women have been put through these feminist boot camps for generations. I am thankful that it is finally coming to a head and creating utter destruction.

In fact it is my Women's Studies class that I took in college as well that led to my becoming a Men's and Father's Rights Activist.. Though I hope much differently for the future of the Men's Movement. God help us if we become like our enemy.

http://community.feministing.com/2009/08/feminist-awakenining-decline-o.html#comments

Feminist awakenining = Decline of my relationship?
Hi,

I am almost twenty years old, a soon-to-be sophomore in college, and have been in a monogamous relationship for the past three years (and am now living with my boyfriend). This past year, thanks to the liberal musings of my boyfriend and this lovely blog, I have taken a great interest in breaking down society - especially the representation and treatment of women.

I am currently taking my first women's and gender studies class (Intro.) and have begun to question EVERYTHING. While rendering T.V., magazines, chats with friends, chats with my parents, etc. completely unentertaining (and often unnerving), it is somewhat affecting my relationship. My boyfriend considers himself a feminist, and while he plays into some gender stereotypes (likes when I wear makeup, dress sexy), he cooks meals, cleans dishes/clothes, is extremely giving in bed, and will call out the objectification of/stereotypical attitudes towards women (he was raised by a very strong mother).

Yet, lately I see him as the total enemy, undermining me to hold his power --- I'm not joking. For example, I found an advertisement in GQ that I found particularly offensive and stereotypical and posted it on the fridge door. He told me that I should take it down, that it wasn't even "that good" and that I misunderstood the context. Another example, I told him a project idea for my women's studies class, he immediately launched into how it was a terrible idea and that blah blah blah. Now, I am open to constructive criticism (I think), but I feel like his insensitive remarks are a way to debase my intelligence. It is as if he knows everything, and instead of softening the blow with "oh..that was good, but" he has to criticize every. single. aspect. He has to maintain his power, his authority, his superior intelligence.

I approached him after these events, calmly, and asked what he was thinking, why he opposes my idea, why he chooses to phrase it in a way that makes me feel upset, etc. But he tells me to lower my voice (though it really isn't loud!) and he gives me the shush face (we have roommates). When he talks about our relationship, it is not "talking," when I talk about our relationship, it is "bickering."

I'm sorry if this is a bundle of nonsense, or self-pitying reflection, but I wanted to know the opinions of other feminists on how to deal with this issue.

Thank you in advance!




While reading another article on an MRA blog I noticed I am not alone in my observation. I like the way this fellow MRA explains the social paradigm created in Women's Studies classes:


Patriarchy theory is the harness, the device which draws together all of that otherwise random energy, magnetizes it, points it in a politicized direction, makes it into a coherent cultural undertow, a galvanizing narrative unity. . .

Propagate this narrative among the masses, or even the camouflaged elements of this narrative, and women everywhere will take the idea on board, finding in it a convenient way to conflate their dysfunctional psychic tendencies with what appears to be a transcending rationale—something "bigger than themselves", a Great Excuse From Heaven that parts the clouds and descends to earth like a sparkling column of sunlight. The narrative, once internalized, spawns a multitude of spinoffs, sub-narratives, sub-memes and hybrids, all of which make their way from mind to mind through a variety of channels, dispersing randomly, like a fog, through the mental environment. Soon, it becomes difficult to define the source, or to occupy any kind of external standpoint.

The "personal" becomes the "political", and so every encounter with a male person becomes (potentially) a politicized moment, framed in the rhetoric of power imbalance. This instills women with a vague, almost mystical sense that some manner of recompense is owed them simply because they are female—and traces of this feeling can percolate into the smallest transactions of life.

http://counterfem.blogspot.com/search?q=political+ecology+of+the+NF+sector

Syndication: A Necessary Rant

All the recent discussion on various blogs about the decline of marriage and fatherhood has got me to thinking. Suppose you were on a cruise ship that got sucked into a maelstrom and landed on an island in a parallel universe. While on the island, you notice a odd phenomenon about the natives. All the men insist on only marrying healthy, attractive women. However, they routinely deny women adequate nutrition, exercise, etc. The end result is that most women are not attractive enough for the men. Also, the men routinely ignore some of the women who are partially attractive because the men have such high standards. So many partially attractive women grow old without a husband. Then the men ignore these women even more and accuse these women of having issues. The men also complain about their being "not enough good women to go around."

How would you feel about these men? How should one feel? You know where I am going with this, don't you? Yep, let's turn the tables. Now you know just how despicable many women are. There is a systemic problem with female expectations in this society. Let's face the facts: Men have been betrayed by women. When many of us were growing up in the shadow of feminism, we were told that women wanted equality. Did that mean true equality? Men were promised that they could be sensitive and they didn't have to be success objects. Men were led to believe that social dominance wasn't not as important as a man's character. Men were led to believe that women would love them for who they were and not for the roles people expected men to fulfill. It's all been a lie.

Too many women are not interested in equality as they are in "eekwalitee" (having their cake and eating it, too). Women are the choosier sex and often express a preference for socially dominant males (men who are confident, ambitious, resilient, industrious, and who have social assets - whether that be looks, wealth, intelligence, or whatever suits the whim of women for that given moment). After all, we are told that women need to pick wisely in order to maximize the benefit for their offspring.

And yet what have we seen?

1. Men being socially disenfranchised as women compete with them for social, legal, and economic power. Men are left scratching their heads. How can women expect men to provide something that women are taking away in the first place?

2. Men have been psychologically beaten down by an anti-male society. From an early age onward, they receive little or no affirmation or encouragement. They encounter very few positive male role models and they receive no real mentoring. Mostly it's blame, recrimination, ridicule, vilification, and neglect they receive at the hands of others and the hands of culture as a whole. The end result is that these men either don't have self-confidence or don't have any ambition (traits women find attractive in men). How could the men have these traits? How could they feel that they have a stake in a society that repeatedly demonstrates indifference, distrust, or outright hostility towards them? Again, how can anyone expect men to possess something that is being taken away in the first place?

The bottom line is that men are having an increasingly difficult time being what women want them to be. And what's even more disconcerting is that many women don't even seem to be bothered by that. It's make one wonder if women have just seen men as a means to an end: genetic material and resources for the offspring. Now that women can receive much of what they want without men, look how many of them act. Women in the mainstream media revel about the demise of men. If these women said similar things about blacks or Jews, they would be dismissed as mentally unhinged. Indeed, they are mentally unhinged, but very few people challenge these women on their sick, mindless, androphobic drivel.

Don't you dare tell me it's "the way women are" and that I need to deal with it. If we place social constraints on the behavior of men, then corresponding constraints need to be placed on women. Churches rant and rave about male promiscuity, the "male gaze", and men "being hung up on looks." Where are the church sermons that address the problem women have in objectifying men as success objects? Have you heard any lately? In the animal kingdom, a lot of female organisms work to accumulate resources for themselves and their offspring with little or no regard for others. Male organisms are reduced to a disposable resource. What are faith communities doing to challenge women to move beyond such a base mode of existence? We talk about a "Christian worldview" but I think a lot of conservative women act like Darwinists in their relationship with men. We are hypocritical when we suggest that masculinity and the male sex drive are sinfully disordered (a result of the Fall, or whatever), but the behavior of women is just "something natural" and the "way they were designed." Excuse me, but I have a difficult time believing the Creator designed women to treat men like tools, or worse, like garbage.

A lot of women are being incredibly foolish if they think society can move on just fine without being concerned about the welfare of men. Readers should take note of this: Women have no power unless men consent to it. That even goes for sexual power. If men don't have a personal stake in the welfare of future generations, then there won't be any future generations. If a critical mass of men start caring more about video games than about impregnating women and parenting the resultant offspring, then this society will fall flat on its face (or it will be replaced by something more rooted in reality). The future is not independent-minded white women. The future is traditionalist, brown-skinned women of an "ancient and enduring" people "whose language you do not know."

Women can't expect to play "top dog" and yet be married to the "top dog." There can only be one "top dog." Embracing gender equality means ditching the Alpha Male Fantasy(tm). Embracing the Alpha Male Fantasy(tm) means ditching gender equality. Remember what I said about the New Gender Deal. Women can't have it both ways.

People also need to start showing genuine compassion, concern, and respect for men as human beings; they need stop acting like men need to earn these things. Otherwise, an increasing amount of men are going to get the idea that nobody genuinely and honestly cares about their inherent worth as people. When men start believing that, they are not going to show much care and concern in return. I think that lies at the heart of much of the crimes men commit.

In short, if nothing changes, then women are going to destroy this society. It's going to be a classic case of the Tragedy of Commons. You don't like me talking about women? Too bad. There's going to be little or no real progress for men and women until women get their act together and rethink their behavior. We can blame the government, the liberals, the New World Order, technology, chivalrous men, genes, or whatever, but here's the indisputable truth: A critical mass of women are primarily responsible for the mess that has come about. Someone needs to point this out. When women constantly belittle, demean, and marginalize men at every turn, someone needs to say something. When women try to have their "eekwalitee" cake and eat it too, giving men the shaft in the process, someone needs to say something. Otherwise, the whole mess is going to explode in the face of women, and they will have no one to cry to.

http://biblicalmanhood.blogspot.com/2009/07/necessary-rant.html

Hypergamy, Polyandry and Discussion

I was on NovaSeekers blog and found an interesting article. As we all know the family i.e. man, woman and child is dying. Fathers are dying and men being able to have a family is dying as well. It all does not look well. So here is my take on it. I wonder what you all have to say. I'd love to hear comments. I find the death of men husbands and fathers in our society very interesting, particularly since many of the sociological and judicial law changes that have taken place is second wave feminist or female driven. 70% of divorce is initiated by women as well along with our 40% single woman birth rate. The destruction of family, particularly our fatherless epidemic is very interesting.

"More than 79% of Americans feel the most significant family or social problem facing America is the physical absence of the father from the home. Research shows that the lack of a father in the home correlates closely with crime, educational and emotional problems, teenage pregnancy, and drug and alcohol abuse."

Source: Ad Council United States


I find it interesting that of all the rest of divorces which are initiated by men (30%) only a fraction of those relationships involve children. In many cases men only initiate divorce when they have no children.

According to Los Angeles divorce consultant Jayne Major: "Divorced men are often devastated by the loss of their children. It's a little known fact that in the United States men initiate only a small number of the divorces involving children."

My father is a dedicated, kind and loving man that would sneak up to see me every chance he got. He would drive an hour each way to visit me during Summer break from school while my mother was at work and I was home alone for the Summer. During the late 80's and 90's sociologist gave a name for these children, "latch key kids". I had to keep my fathers involvement in my life a secret from my mother though. I remember how special it was to see him and how I was kinda scared he would get caught being a father to me. The court says that only women can have children and fathers should only get "visitation" of 4 days a month. The law says that men must support a woman financially no matter what, even if she leaves you and takes your children. Should a man loose his job or is unable to pay he will face jail or interest payments payed directly to the woman as punishment when he is able to support her again. It was that way with my dad as well. I would visit him at his house 4 days a month (every other weekend). I remember how empty his apartment was and how little money he had. Most of it went to my mother and the mortgage on the house she took from him. I love my mother. He never once said anything bad about my mother. He spent quality time with me. I remember making a tent out of bed sheets.

There is an effort now to try and bring men back into the family, not by women but by government. I don't think the government knows all the causes. For now I guess we will just have to blame men for all this as the U.S. ad council does. It was not always like this. Our families were not always like this.
Men used to have families, children used to have fathers.

Ok on to the article:
Novaseeker says:


So here it is:

Age at first marriage:


Marriage Rates: http://www.bsos.umd.edu/socy/vanneman/socy441/trends/marriage.html


Divorce Rate:
http://www.bsos.umd.edu/socy/vanneman/socy441/trends/divorce.html
This one is interesting as you can see where divorce plateaued and appeared to decline but this was the critical mass point at which the decline of marriage started to catch up along with increasing preference for loose knit cohabitation and single woman births rather than marriage. I've always found the skyrocketing divorce rate and it's correlation with the date and time of second wave feminism and second wave feminist divorce laws very interesting.
PLEASE READ, DIVORCE DECLINING BUT SO IS MARRIAGE BY 50% IN FACT.
http://rebukingfeminism.blogspot.com/2009/03/divorce-declining-but-so-is-marriage-by.html


This is where men are going now. A 400% percent increase in incarceration rates.
A GOOD READ: http://www.boysproject.net/papers/The_State_of_American_Manhood.pdf


Female headed households single mother fatherless children: http://www.bsos.umd.edu/socy/vanneman/socy441/trends/hhrace.html

I'm not sure if everyone knows so I have to repeat stats throughout my blog but single parent families in the U.S. is synonymous with fatherless families as 90% of men loose their children in divorce.


Single woman birth rate: This one is also very interesting. 1 in 4 women now carry a disease that is sexually transmitted. HPV and cervical cancer is on the rise. They have created a vaccine for certain types but disease among women is a major problem and part of our new family structure or rather a lack there of.
http://www.bsos.umd.edu/socy/vanneman/socy441/trends/fertunm.html


This graph is slightly dated, the single mother birth rate is now 40% of all births.
Feminists know that this is the result of their agenda. I believe that is why they are making more calculated implementation of laws in other countries that give women rights to male resources out of wedlock see: Anti Feminist Protests in Mali a few blog posts up:http://rebukingfeminism.blogspot.com/2009/08/anit-feminist-protests-in-mali.html


I like what the other commenter said:

"Pre-marital sex screwed up many things. It allowed the top 10-15% of men to lead on the top 50% of women, and the top 30% of men to lead on the top 70% of women. Porn, romance novels/chick flicks/prostitutes fill in the gaps so the existence isn't so unbearable and the years keep on flying by."

"Getting to have sex with men in the top 20% of attractiveness would be drug-like for a gal who is in only the top 40-50% of attractiveness, and it makes it hard for her to settle for a man who merely is like herself, right in the middle of the attractiveness scale."



So I think what we are looking at here is an artificially created sexual selective dynamic which has a tight threshold of males able to mate or females that will mate with them. The only place I've seen such a threshold is in nature where the male is not needed to provide resources and multiple females are able to mate with the alpha male as in deer and many other animals.

The one defining factor is the lack of need for a male to a mated pair bond to provide resources. We humans have created this systemically as we have extremely long gestation periods for our offspring and in actuality a male is needed to stay in the pair bond to ensure survival. The difference being is that we do this through alimony, child support, government husbandry and president placed on female independence and resource acquisition by herself.

With the male nullified I see it is increasingly the case that we will have fatherless children and many men who will not be able to have a family. Those that do are subject to forced systemic resource transference outside the mated pair bond after divorce. The female is also able to increase her genetic fitness in this model as she is able to mate again after divorce where as the males are left without a family and rights to their own resources to start another family or support another family.

I imagine this dynamic will create quite a few men who do not find incentive to produce and will increasingly become more predatory upon society rather than provisionary.

The current dynamic aligns with all the male health indicators. Male suicide has tippled since 1970, particularly among boys and men ages 15-27. Some of these boys have decided to kill others before killing themselves. School shootings, mass shootings and murder suicides began to present itself among men and boys in the 1990's. Those of you old enough to remember know that men and boys did not always kill themselves and others in such proportions in the past it was unheard of. Males have been dropping out of colleges and now only acquire 40% of all degrees. This does not include the policies enacted to force males out of college such as Title IX, Affirmative Action and women only loans and scholarships. The decline of men from the public sphere and the effect on the forced marginalization of men and boys is evident. In 1964, 72 percent of men voted for president, while that number today has dropped to 53 percent today.

The effect is compounded by female privileged laws designed to accelerate and facilitate this as well as no-fault divorce that feminists successfully tied to default awards of alimony, child support and default female child custody.

I think the key for feminists would be to close the raw wage gap or surpass the aggregate of male monetary productive capacity at all costs. I think this is why they are speaking of extending Title IX to all science, technical and engineering departments. At this point females have a 60% of college degrees. I think the goal is to get them to 70-100% of college degrees. This is important as it will serve to marginalize men out of the family as planned. See the below study extract:

-- Education and Hypergamy, and the “Success Gap” by Prof. Elaina Rose * Department of Economics University of Washington contact email erose@u.washington.edu
http://www.aeaweb.org/annual_mtg_papers/2005/0109_1300_0701.pdf

Here: The more educated or "independent" a female is, the less likely she will find a mate she sees as adequate and the less likely she will mate and have children.



Thus the lower the chances she will ever become a mother.


The reverse it true for men: The more education and resources the man has the more likely he will find a mate. This is hypergamy in action. I think perhaps that hypergamy is female driven and the dissolution of family is exacerbated by female instinct for "successful" males. The more educated and independent a woman is, the more resourcefully successful she is, the less adequate the males around her seem to be.





Though at all levels men are increasingly turning away from marriage. Some sociologists refer to this as the "marriage strike" among men. Perhaps it is because men don't have any rights in marriage. Perhaps it is because sex is widely and easily available to men out side marriage and with many different women. Perhaps hypergamous preferences in females slow down female mate selection as females become more educated. I suspect all three factors.
A GOOD READ: http://www.boysproject.net/papers/The_State_of_American_Manhood.pdf


In her report Prof. Rose states:

"“Hypergamy” is the tendency for women to marry up with respect to education or other characteristics associated with economic well-being. For a given level of hypergamy, an increase in the education of women relative to men will tend to increase the “success gap” (i.e., the disadvantage faced by successful women in the marriage market). I track the success gap with U.S. Census data and find that the success gap declined between 1980 and 2000 – when women’s education increased with respect to men’s. This is because hypergamy was not constant – it also declined. Similarly, we would expect marriage rates to fall for men at the bottom of the distribution. This was consistent with the data. The decline in hypergamy was concentrated at the top of the distribution. Over the period, hypergamy increased at the bottom of the distribution. (The author is demonstrating the increased marginalization of males from mating, marriage and the opportunity to have a family leading to an over all decline of marriage) She states "Changes in family policy such as the
liberalization of divorce laws, as well as shifts in social norms, have reinforced these trends."

"Patterns in education have changed considerably as well. Overall, the population of both men and women in the U.S. has become more educated, and women have become more educated relative to men."

"Marriage has changed substantially in the last several decades. The most notable change is the overall decline. At any given age, individuals are less likely to be, or have ever been, married. According to Becker’s [1977] work, the decline can be explained by the increase in women’s labor supply and market human capital which has reduced the gains from specialization and exchange in marriage. Other explanations include the improvement in birth control technology (Akerloff et al [1995] and Goldin and Katz [2002]) and the increase in welfare generosity (government husbandry taking the place of husbands and fathers for resource provision to the family) (Murray, 1984) 1 . Grossbard-Schechtman [1993] relates the decline in women’s propensity to marry"

(I note that: Further more the tendency for women to not stay married and initiate divorce do to feminist implementation of no fault divorce, default female child custody and forced male resource provision while remaining in isolation from the female and child with alimony and child support further exacerbates the problem. Divorce is 70% female initiated and the out of wedlock birth rate of 40% of all births is female driven.

"If women tend to marry up with respect to, say, education, and if education is
distributed similarly by sex, (which it is not as women earn 60% of all college degrees which further exacerbates the issue) women at the top of the distribution will have more limited options,and a negative relationship between education and marriage will emerge."

However the author states that though net hypergamy has declined it has only done so at the top of the educational distribution. In other words when the most highly of educated women do marry, there is little disparity between a top producing career woman and a top producing career man. Overall though becoming a highly educated career woman comes at a cost as seen in the rapid decline in the probability of marriage for these women as well as the probability of having children as is evidenced by the graphs above.

Anyway, I'm quite interested in the sociology of the black community because they have surpassed 70% single woman birth rates and their fatherless rate is very high along with educational disparity between black men and women. Net hypergamy has also decreased for black women. Though the author did not publish that data for black "% mothers" I suspect that it is incorporated in graph above though the author did not specify. The black community is an interesting model to demonstrate where we are headed with the increase in the hypergamic indicators noted above. So I think white males and the rest of society will see a clear decline in the majority of male place in society and male behavior.. Increase in crime, suicide, drug and alcohol abuse, lower educational achievement, fatherless families etc etc etc. The black community serves as a perfect construct to illustrate the changes that are to come given the same variables present in their community.

In fact all of these indicators are increasing in males in our society at the moment and sociological behavior of males in society by enlarge is starting to align with male behavior under the same factors as black males have been exposed to. I don't see a stop to it any time soon. All health indicators for males point to a severe decline and I am concerned about the family structure as the graphs I've pointed out above show significant momentum. I don't think they will decline anytime soon...Too many single mothers has created a legacy of young men without the knowledge of how to be fathers as fathers are increasingly pushed out of their homes and from the lives of their children. Even the young fathers who are present often have little knowledge of fathering, having been denied the benefit of a father themselves.
I think people are starting to realize what is happening but I think it is to late to fix it and it will take a lot of time to repair.

The only solution AS THE LAWS CURRENTLY STAND and as men are not valued or needed as fathers and husbands men should not be required to support a female and child with alimony and child support. When males are not needed in nature and monogamous pair bonds are not formed the males mate and go their own way... In my mind anything less than complete independence for men is unacceptable. Males must withdraw completely. Men must become "independent" as women have. Female "independence" as it is called is actually another name for "not needing a man" as a husband or a father to children. Men need to respond to this accordingly. I think it is the men who want a family, a wife and child the most that are most passionate and resentful of our current situation.

Chivalry and other elements of male connection to women and "their" children needs to decline. Men have increasingly dissconnected from commitment, protection, provision and chivalry to women but it needs to continue. Black males have adapted well and I admire their response of independence. I believe men and women are indeed going our separate ways as women wanted but the last of male ties to protection and provision to women MUST BE ELIMINATED for equality to exists as women want. We must not have mutual dependence, need or obligation to one another or to a family. The collective statement of women as is seen from the graphs above, is the divorce of males in general at a societal level. Now that this is occurring it is important we arbitrate the terms of the death of marriage and family.. Men should not be left with nothing while footing the bill as is currently the case. Make no mistake, WOMEN WANT "INDEPENDENCE" and we must free ourselves from them as well. We have no choice now...

I want men to have families though, I want men to have children...I don't want this to happen to us but it is, and as such, at an alarming rate.... There is no turning back men, you must fight for your rights in this new order! Stand together and fight for Men's and Father's Rights! If not your dignity or rights to your own working labor and forced servitude to financially support a woman that divorced you, AT LEAST YOU SHOULD HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE INVOLVED IN THE LIFE OF YOUR CHILDREN, TO BE A FATHER. It is a hard and uphill battle. I don't blame you from withdrawing from commitment to women, marriage and to your estranged children. I respect your decision of independence from your disposability and the hypocrisy you face.

A good read:
http://biblicalmanhood.blogspot.com/2009/08/delay-of-marriage-men-are-not-problem.html

Excerpts: The Cinderella Paradox

"I've blogged about this one, and it's related to the "Cosmo Complex." Women tend to be hypergamous. The "Paradox" is that as women increase their social status, the ability of men to be desirable mates for these women decreases. The pyramid narrows at the top, but don't tell this to the modern woman. She has conned herself into believing that their are enough men of high status to go around who are, at the same time, serious about marriage."

"We can't put the toothpaste back into the tube, tell women to stop seeking prestigious jobs, or tell them to get back into the kitchen and bake some pie. But the doesn't stop many so-called liberated women from confining men to the old, stereotyped role of being "the main earner" does it? The reason there is a delay in marriages is because a critical mass of women show they are clueless about this matter."

Sooo, will women change, will they allow men to be freed from our oppressive role as provider now that women are independent? Or will they continue to be our foes, or competitors and demonstrate the hypocrisy of feminism. Will they continue to blame men for this?

Men, I to am becoming a hardened shell unto myself. I desire a wife, a child a family but I know in an instant, if she decides, it can all be taken away from me. I will never marry in the legal sense and am afraid of being a heartless shadow in the life of my child as I know that at any moment a woman can take my child away from me. I am afraid to commit to a woman or get to close to my prospectful children.

In exploring my feelings I found the below:

"Sonja Hastings of Fathers-4-Equality says that “no matter how decent, hardworking, and caring you may be as a father, that in the event of separation, you will more than likely not get custody of your child, you will lose up to 80% of all of your assets, you will have to pay up to five times the cost of raising a child, (in alimony and child support) and most importantly you could never see your child again.” In Britain a fathers’ rights group tours university campuses warning young men not to start families. Even one attorney writes a book concluding that the only effective protection for men to avoid losing their children is not to start a family in the first place."

As a young man in college, I was red in the face at what they were telling me in my Women's Studies class. So I sought out resources to understand what is happening and how I can adapt accordingly. At this point it seems I need to think about disconnecting from paternal investment in my offspring or support of a family in marriage and move on to something that allows me independence. I don't want to get my cell phone bill, electric bill, child support bill and woman support bill and have that be my existence. I think detaching from women and fatherhood is a rather smart strategy.

Novaseeker has written an excellent paper which Men's Rights groups are discussing to figure out where the movement needs to go. The paper helps young men understand the new mating model and to help them adapt accordingly. The rise of the "hook up" culture, "The Game" and PUA's or "pick up artists" and the "playa" or "player" is a growing phenomenon as well. Courtship towards the ends of marriage is not so much the case or an ideal and healthy choice for men. These adaptations have rightfully spread from the ostracized males of the black community to the rest of society. Women and feminists seek such ends (perhaps unknown to themselves) as to the wide spread sexualization and devaluation of women as something to commit to.

Males are adapting to optimize for little commitment and short term mating opportunities that females now present to them. Sex is now widely available from women as well as rampant disease (1 in 4 women carry a disease that is sexually transmitted)Sex being as separated from reproduction has opened the door to a new mating dynamic that has assisted, along with other feminist laws to destroy the monogamous pair bond structure of marriage.

Novaseeker
http://novaresources.blogspot.com/2009/04/general-theory-of-human-mating.html

Be A Father??? Yea Right

The below video would be seen as something from a science fiction film by our grandparents and generations past. A dystopian reality where men are no longer part of a family or the lives of their children has come to be reality in the year 2009. This change in the American family began 40 years prior. They would never have thought that the President of The United States would one day have to address the entire nation on the lack of a father in the home and in the lives of children. They never would have thought it would come to this point. Such a civilization and it's social culture are certainly worse off by this. Surely such a culture is destined for a continual decline. Indeed I am concerned about the future of my country, a country which is suffering a collapse of it's infrastructure in all realms, including the family.



I've got a proposal Mr. President, how about you allow men to be fathers! How about you support shared parenting and equal divorce law so that men don't loose their homes, their children and rights to their working labor supporting a woman who left them through no fault divorce and a child that has been taken away from him. No father should be a "visitor" of 4 days a month in a child's life. 90% of men loose their children in divorce. 70% of all divorce is initiated by women. I ask you Mr. President who is it really that is abandoning their families? Maybe the same people who entitled themselves to gain alimony and child support even in no-fault divorce,, The Women's Party the Feminists! Maybe the same people who lobbied to create no-fault divorce, The Women's Party, the Feminists. Of the 30% of all divorces that are initiated by men many if not most are of relationships where the man and woman did not have children.

So again Mr. President, according to Los Angeles divorce consultant Jayne Major: "Divorced men are often devastated by the loss of their children. It's a little known fact that in the United States men initiate only a small number of the divorces involving children."

How dare you speak to men in such a condescending way. "Take your kid to the zoo, play catch etc etc... How dare you act as if we need to teach men to love their children. How dare you... I have never been married and am not a father but I know the forces I face for Men's and Father's Rights in my country. Men have been cast out of the family structure in the largest proportions in history and now you are trying to tell men it's their fault, that fatherhood is in crisis and it's men who need to man up and solve the issue!!!? Men are fighting EVERYDAY to be fathers. The Men's and Father's Rights Movement is growing. I urge you Mr. President to go to ACFC.org and sign the shared parenting petition.

FIX FAMILY LAW AND STOP YOUR PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENTS BLAMING MEN FOR AMERICA'S RECORD RATE OF DISSOLVED FAMILIES, OUR 40% SINGLE WOMAN BIRTH RATE, OUR 50% DIVORCE RATE, OUR 70%+ FEMALE INITIATED DIVORCE RATE AND FATHERLESSNESS..... YOU FEMINIST, YOU ASSHOLE, HOW DARE YOU BLAME MEN AND PUT ALL THE RESPONSIBILITY TO FIX THIS ON OUR SHOULDERS!.........
FATHERS ARE DISPOSABLE WHILE FORCED TO SUPPORT WOMEN AND THEIR ESTRANGED CHILDREN REMEMBER? MR. PRESIDENT, THIS IS NOT A MALE DRIVEN PROBLEM. INCREASINGLY SO, MEN ARE RESPONDING ACCORDINGLY TO THEIR DISPOSABLITLY.



Really??? That's strange, men vary rarely abandon their families Mr. President.. In fact men only initiate 30% of all divorce and many if not most of these cases do not involve children.....


With all due respect Mr. President I just graduated college several years ago and young boys and girls are taught not only in my Women's Studies class but even in my philosophy class that men are not necessary as husbands and fathers. You see we were all taught that all that is necessary for the development of children is the extended family of grandparents, uncles and aunts and the myriad of men that come in and out of the homes of single mothers and "their" children or simply a loving gay or lesbian couple. Even I fell for it.

It was my Women's Studies class that made me realize that it was all a lie. You see, they say single motherhood is a lifestyle choice remember? What do you think brings me here to create my blog? My Women's Studies class you idiot. I was so angry at what they were teaching in my college my mother was worried about me (The court said my father is only a visitor in my life but he did not give up). I came home red in the face my president. Think real hard about the changes in our culture in the last 35-40 years. Take a good hard look at feminism. You know, the people you surround yourself with and convinced you to create the Council on Women and Girls only. Those people!!!



PLEASE WRITE THE PRESIDENT DIRECTLY HERE: http://www.whitehouse.gov/ope/contact/

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One woman's view in reply to a woman who decided to buy sperm and become a single mother THIS IS HOW MODERN WOMEN ARE TAUGHT TO THINK. THIS IS FEMINISM. THIS GOES TO SHOW YOU HOW MEN ARE VIEWED IN OUR SOCIETY. THAT NO LAWS PROTECT AGAINST THIS AND OTHER EXPLOITATION AND HUMAN RIGHTS VIOLATIONS OF MEN IS BEYOND ME. THIS IS HOW WOMEN SPEAK OF US EVERYWHERE I LOOK. PAY ATTENTION, IT IS MORE WIDE SPREAD BELIEF THAN YOU THINK. BELOW IS THE GOAL OF FEMINISM:
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"I think that women who want to get married and have children, may have to compromise on the GENE QUALITY of the man for his ability to financially support the child.
however women who have stable careers and think they can support the child alone, are in a unique position to get the BEST GENES for their children if they are willing to be single mothers. Single motherhood is increasingly becoming an option for women."

"Most women may not be able to marry the tall, attractive, guy with good proportions and health and have his kids, but having such a guy to donate his sperm may be easier. for this reason, young Nordic and Mediterranean men are in great demand"

(and their sperm goes for a decent price -added exemplification).

"The point is that if you have decided to raise the child alone and dont bother that the biological father is legally absolved of the responsiblity then why not choose the genes of best quality for your child?"

"Just imagine how good it will be for women if we had more state benefits for child support, if only we had a system where the state was responsible for bringing up the kids and women would not have to chase after men to marry them and share the burden of supporting and in the process compromising on genetic quality, choosing ugly, fat, bald, short unattractive men only because they were willing to be good supporters.
this is not FREEDOM of choice for women. women are forced to choose these men."

(The law says that men have to support us but they don't always send us all the money they are supposed to even when they are sent to jail or pay interest payments to us for punishment. The problem is that we only get more money from men the more they feel involved in their child's life. -added exemplification)

The stats:
90.2% of fathers with joint custody pay the support due.
79.1% of fathers with visitation privileges pay the support due.
44.5% of fathers with no visitation pay the support due.

(The fact is that women now have complete control over conception and all the reproductive rights. Men don't even have paternity fraud laws to protect them much less abortion or even the right to custody of their own children. Men are to be taken or left out and we still get supported by them. -exemplification)

"In the ideal society i talk about where there is 100% state child support, women would be free to choose the men they really want to conceive from and the genes they really think would create the healthy, beautiful babies they want."

(Single motherhood is your choice and every independent woman's choice, this is the reason we fought for equality, so that we won't need men or to keep or commit to men anymore as husbands or fathers. Men don't really have any vital importance anymore nor are they necessary to be happy. That's what equality is all about to give us choices and freedoms -added exemplification).

http://www.doublex.com/blog/yourcomeback/why-40-something-choosing-use-sperm-donor
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EXTRACT: TIME MAGAZINE FRONT PAGE ARTICLE "ARE HUSBANDS NECESSARY?
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"Meanwhile, more single women--especially those watching their biological clocks run down--are resorting to solo pregnancies, sperm donors or adoption agencies. While the birthrate has fallen among teenagers, it has climbed 15% among UNmarried thirtysomethings since 1990. In the TIME/CNN poll, fully 61% of single women ages 18 to 49 answered yes when asked whether they would consider rearing a child on their own." (The single woman birth rate is at an all time high of 40% of all births)

"The four lead characters on TV's Sex and the City, single women who live the supafly life and discard men quicker than last season's bag and shoes--and look damn good doing it. All of them, nevertheless, are part of a major societal shift: single women, once treated as virtual outcasts, have moved to the center of our social and cultural life. Unattached females--wisecracking, gutsy gals, not pathetic saps--are the heroine du jour in fiction, from Melissa Bank's collection of stories, The Girls' Guide to Hunting and Fishing, to Helen Fielding's Bridget Jones's Diary, the publishing juggernaut that has spawned one sequel and will soon be a movie. The single woman is TV's It Girl as well, not just on Sex and the City, the smash HBO series in the midst of its third buzz-producing season, but also on a growing number of network shows focused on strong, career-minded single women, such as Judging Amy and Providence."

EXEMPLIFICATION SECTION WITH REAL EXAMPLES TO WOMEN'S COMMENTS:

(We don't really need men for anything. I'm looking for a soul mate, a man that can make me happy. I've worked to hard to have this type of freedom and am not going to compromise that. I've worked to hard to get to where I am, to be independent. Women today can have a man in or out of marriage and it's not a big deal, he still has to send us alimony and child support. With the rise of affordable, quality child care and even the prospect of paid maternity leave I'm able to pursue true individual freedom. Being a single women or a single mother is a choice and it's empowering to women, it's men's job to help us do it, not that we need their money anyway, but it's nice to have the extra income.

Men must know that we don't need them and that they must compete amongst each other for something else now, namely how they can please us and make us happy. Women can have offspring and reproduce anytime we want and in many different ways, with men or without them. It's men who have to have something to offer us, now a days this can be anything we want. Men are intimidated by successful women for a reason, we are competing for and taking away the things we demand they offer us. I'm sure it's humiliating but I require that they still pay for my food and drinks and other entertainment on dates. If I feel like it I'll throw in a token offer to pay something but they always know the safer bet is to pay up and they always do...LOL.

If I wanted to be married and let a man commit and propose to me I would. I've actually turned down several men. Today, men are panderers and useless as husbands or fathers. Don't you see, the whole point of "independence" is to not need a man and the whole point of not needing a man is to make them want and need us more than we need them.

If I do have kids it will be later on. I'm not going to get off this ride for a while. Besides I am never short of a date and men "know how to treat a woman" when their courting us to be a good suitor. My advise is to wait until about 30 years old. Men are so marginalized they go for older women now. I think the best insurance for a woman when she decides to do so is to get married, divorce, find another guy but stay single. That way I can enjoy the benefits of my new man while still receiving alimony from the old one.

REAL WORLD EXAMPLE FROM: (http://www.thirdage.com/living-single/why-some-women-will-never-get-married

"Vickie of Orlando e-mailed, "I receive a nice alimony check each month, eventually 50 percent of his Social Security, and upon his death, hundreds of thousands in life insurance. So why would I even think of getting married again?"

Women today have all the choices and this is what equality for women is all about. We don't need men and are independent but they still have to support us and even pay for us on dates, in marriage and most importantly after we leave them in no-fault divorce. Men are always there for us to lean on, lol. Feminist divorce laws implemented in the 70's or what these Men's Rights MRA freaks call "MARRIAGE 2.0" has done wonders for women's equality. Women initiate 70+% of all divorce for a reason and this does not include the growing number of women who decide to leave the increasing amount of cohabitant relationships. If a man does not make me happy I take the home, his money and his children and force him to support me. It's really that simple and yes it's really that empowering.

Think about it, Marsha, we earn 60% of ALL college degrees, and still have Affirmative Action, Title IX, women only loans, women only full scholarships etc. Competitive learning has been banned from our schools in favor of cooperative learning. Just put the boys on drugs like Ritalin and give it some name like Attention Deficit HyperActivity Disorder or ADHD. Boys aren't even allowed to play dodge ball anymore. Teach them that they have a disease where they can't pay attention and are hyperactive and make everyone think boys just have this disease. Just tell them to shut up or go to detention.

Women have been earning more bachelor’s degrees than men since 1982, and more master’s degrees than men since 1981. In 2006, women earned 57% of all bachelor’s degrees, 58% of all master’s, and 47% of all doctorates and first professional degrees. But guess what women are projected to EXCEED 50% of enrollment for doctorates and first professional degrees for the first time in 2006. Who will these women marry, I don't really care but I can tell you one thing, not a man less successful and educated than I am, but I'm sure we will find a use for them, they won't like it but they really will have no other choice ; )

By 2016 women are projected to receive over 60% of bachelor degrees, 61% of master’s degrees and over 53% of all doctorate and first professional degrees We live 7 years longer AND have 7 federal offices for women's health, men have not 1 though they suffer from all health aliments more than we do, are 80% of all suicides and 85% of the homeless, 96% of workplace deaths and combat deaths. All this and the president just opened up The Council on Women and Girls to help us even more. Men just won't stop being chivalrous, protecting and providing for us, what pansies they are.

Listen, women make 80% of all consumer purchases in this country and by 2010 will have 60% of the nations wealth. Think about it, women don't get paid less for the same job, we get paid less as a whole of the population because we don't have the same obligations men do and make different choices, we are not forced by law to support them. The wage gap of 22 cents (78 cents to the dollar) is the Raw Wage Gap or adding up how much men and women make in the entire work force. Besides where do you think government money and men's money goes anyway...you guessed it, right into our pocket in government entitlements and forced male labor to support us which more than makes up for those 22 cents.

We don't have to defend the country, can have a man removed from the home or his child and thrown in jail by word alone and best of all men don't have any rights in divorce. I remember a time when I got pissed at my boyfriend, threw plates at him, broke glasses, slapped and hit him and then called the police to take him to jail, lol. All I have to do is call the big strong police men to help protect me..lol..men are so stupid. That's why we have the Violence Against Women Act : ) Do you think we will ever replace "women's shelters" with counseling centers for families? Men don't even have assault laws to protect them nor domestic violence services, heck boys of 12 years of age or older can't even enter a shelter. That's why we put these ads up in order to show little boys as criminals and little girls as victims. It's our way of saying that family violence is always the fault of men and is always perpetrated by men and we like it that way.




We are able to cast men out of the home and family and there is nothing he can do about it. That's the big trick, even though women hold 54% percent of the vote, if you look at the voting numbers at all levels of government we still vote for men, why, because men will provide, protect and die for us into their own oblivion, they always have, it's their instinct.

They won't put up a fight, male suicide has tripled since 1970 so they will just kill themselves off. We've got them between a rock and a hard place and there is nothing they will do about it! In 1964, 72 percent of men voted for president, while that number today has dropped to 53 percent today. Add men's retreat from the public sphere and our 54% voting majority and there you have it, a country run by women and our needs and the men who serve them! Do you think were going to open up an office on men's health or give them anything like shared custody of our children, hell no, we still have a long way to go and are still oppressed by men who insist on providing for us and protecting us even though we are independent. We've fought long and hard to be independent and not need men for anything and we are not about to give that up. We can have our cake and eat it to! ; ) Men are simply being shut out and dropping out of society. Look at their labor force participation not to mention their only 40% of earned college degrees and falling.



They won't save themselves from this and women of course will not save them either, the end game has been played and of course as always, men provided and protected us without a fight. I don't feel a bit of pity for them, that's what men are for, to provide and protect us while being expendable and disposable and they know their place in society and what happens in marriage if the do not please me....bye bye provider man, provide from an empty apartment for now on, oh and I hope you miss your children.... LOL ; ). We as women have managed to create so many law, rights and privileges for ourselves we are now a separate class away from men and family. Class warfare with men is evident. Men know they have a lot of pleasing to do or else, the stupid dotes don't have any rights, just look at the link below....LOL -exemplification)

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Below: A feminist writes.....
http://messages.yahoo.com/Cultures_%26_Community/Groups/Women/threadview?m=tm&bn=18943567&tid=1560&mid=1560&tof=-1&rt=2&frt=2&off=1

OK. Time to put men out of your misery. Feminism was and is the biggest con in history. We talked endlessly about "equality" yet that was the last thing we wanted. You men have yet to realise that women never say what we mean. It is always shrouded in hyperbole and imagery.

So now, we are so close to having our cake and eating it. Here are just a few examples.

1) We can take you to the cleaners in divorce. No suggestion of equality there. We can have affairs and divorce you and we STILL get the house and maintenance for as long as we need. There is now absolutely no risk in a woman filing for divorce. You men don't even have the right to shag us any more. More and more women are making their husbands live celebate lives in marriage. Once we have that ring on our finger we rule! I am only 27. I have been married three times. Each one I stayed with for three years and then took for every penny I could get. You see, we only have to convince a judge of "irretreivable breakdown" of the relationship. And how is that determined? Easy. When ONE party does not wish the relationship to continue. My current husband needs another year I would say. The business he has built up is not quite where I need it to be yet. When it is, he will go the same way as the others. The house is already mine "for tazx reasons". At least thats what he thinks. I "allowed" my name to be put on the deeds, but he will find come the day that this just means the house is mine already. I tend to go for cash settlements with regard to maintenance which leaves me free to start again. Not that I need to now. By the time I have ditched this poor sap, I will have more than enough to live a very good lifestyle with for the rest of my life. Even if money starts to run short I can always do it again. It's not as if I have to have sex much either. I pick men who are on the way up building their buisnesses. The hours they put in mean they are usually too tired and if they have affairs with their secretaries, well, that just makes it easier for me.

2) We get far less severe prison sentences for the same crimes. We can even murder our new born children and it is written off as Post Natal Depression. Women's groups all over the world are working for the day when no woman will ever be sent to prison for any crime. ANd trust me, that day will come. Take a look..
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/6444961.stm

(British home secretary Baroness Corston has proposed that all women's prisons should be shut down and converted to prisons for men. If adopted by the home secretary, Baroness Corston's approach would see Holloway and about 14 other all-female prisons in England and Wales shut down or converted into jails for men.)



3) In the work place not only do we get paid for taking time off to have children, but now we even get pay rises while we are off, an absolute right in law to return to the job we left and in some cases now, we even get promoted while we are on leave. Employers have to invest in our training, but we are free to screw them over by taking all the training and qualifications we can get of of them and then leaving.

4) We now have senior politicians who advocate "positive descrimination" . In other words, if you are a white male, you are where you belong. At the bottom of the heap. Women are eased into top jobs and ministerial positions in Government. The Sisterhood is alive and well and working beautifully. The Labour Government, always breathtakingly stupid has actually gone as far as prohibiting the selection of male candidates in some wards. Fantastic.

And you poor men. What can one say? All you need is a little show of panty now and then and you are putty in our hands. You and you alone have allowed us to take this supremecy and you have done so without a whimper. When I joined the feminist movement, I didnt really buy into the more vitriolic mantras of "all men are pigs" and "the only good man is a doormat", but now I see you for what you are. A means of providing what I want.

(You are the servant sex, the male-male competition for female sexually selective choice universal to all the animal kingdom, the protectors and providers to your own demise and death, now suffering in health, dying to protect us, competing amongst each other, easily manipulated, you are expendable, disposable, worthless and killing yourself for us, just the way we planned it. Look now, behold all the sniveling dribbling metrosexual feminized men pandering for mating opportunity, desperately trying to find a way now to be of some use to us when we've taken everything you try to provide to us for ourselves. The further we advance the further you will be subjugated to women, the females servant to our own increasingly powerful instituted and ordained entitlements.

We now rule politics, education, healthcare, have all the rights in divorce, conception, reproduction, the justice system you name it. All because you can't help but to provide and protect us to your own demise. The more you resist the more men will restrain other men and create more laws and be rewarded by gaining political power to those that serve females. Yes, that's right we have the voting majority. Men think they are in power when they are simply doing our bidding for us, the work horses for the growing matriarchy. The gates of male subjugation to the female sex are open and not even females ourselves can stop it now! Your plight is hopeless and you don't even know it, victims of your own purpose of utility to the female, your brainless instinct of servitude! Your simply not valued as much and value yourselves less than us. That's why you elect to die to save us and die you will. In our promise of equality to you we have convinced you to eat the apple once again but this time I hope you choke on it. No matter how independent we get, we will always seek out the same things we always have from you and with ever mounting competition with your new and most formidable competitor, not other males but females. We will compete against you for the very things we demand from you until you die.

Look at our big man, our mommas boy, breed with sole female authority. Stand back and watch what happens next.

SHARED PARENTING PETITION ! SIGN NOW !

SIGN THE PETITION!!!! SPREAD THE WORD!! WE ARE ALMOST THERE!!

http://acfc.convio.net/site/PageServer?pagename=ssp&pw_id=1521


SOON MEN WILL BE ALLOWED TO BE FATHERS!!!!

DON'T GIVE UP, KEEP HOPE, CHANGE IS ON THE HORIZON!!!

There is currently a proposition within the Responsible Father's and Healthy Families Act of 2009 WHICH SEEKS TO CREATE THE NATIONS FIRST OFFICE OF MEN'S HEALTH!! The above petition is a part of this bill! WE NEED YOUR SUPPORT!

WOMEN HAVE CREATED 7 FEDERAL OFFICES FOR THEIR HEALTH though men suffer from poorer health, are 85% of the homeless, 80% of suicides which has increased 3x since 1970. Male health has been on the decline in all realms.

The shared parenting petition seeks to presume that men should have equal and shared custody of their children and are not left childless by default full custody given to the woman. Currently it is the case that 90% of men loose their children in divorce and are only able to see them 4 days a month. There are only two hurdles that we need to remove.

1: There is a profit driven model from the federal government to the states based on how many men they can separate from their children. Once there is a parent\visitor model the visitor (usually the father) is made to pay child support. Federal rewards are given to states based on how much money is collected from men and how many men they have collected money from. As of late the primary opposition from state legislatures has been "if we pass shared parenting laws we will loose revenue from the government" "shared parenting is just not profitable" Thus we must keep the profit driven model. There is another way!

2: Women's groups claim that men are more of a danger to women and children when they are in to close or to frequent contact with the father. They claim the benefits of allowing men to have children do not outweigh the risk to both women and children.
It is said that most men are just to violent and harmful to women and children. There is another way! We must show that men are good and second we are human beings who have the right to have the blessings of being a father.

Why are there no conferences, petitions, workshops, congressional hearings, or presidential councils to help men close the education gap, the health care gap, the insurance gap, the job-loss gap, the death gap, the homeless gap, the suicide gap, the workplace fatality gap, the divorce law and child custody gap? Because, unlike women, men do not have hundreds of men's studies departments, research institutes, policy centers, and lobby groups working tirelessly to promote their challenges as political causes."

MEN, WE ARE ALL ALONE, WE ALWAYS HAVE BEEN BUT WE MUST FORM RANKS NOW. IF YOU DO NOT STAND UP AND FIGHT YOU WILL LOSE. Women do not spend much time worrying about the well-being of men. Their natural inclination is to let men look after themselves and take their chances in life. At the same time, they count on men to shield them from the harsher aspects of reality, and become extremely indignant at any men who fail to do so. In other words, women are naturally inclined to assume that men must take responsibility for everyone, while they are only responsible for themselves and "their" children. INCREASINGLY THOUGH WE ARE STICKING TOGETHER, ORGANIZING AND MAKING A VOICE FOR OURSELVES AND GOING OUR OWN WAY AS WELL. SUCH IS THE MODO OF THE "MGTOW" FACTION OF THE MOVEMENT. THERE IS A GROWING PRESENCE OF MEN ON YOUTUBE, YAHOO ANSWERS GENDER FORUMS AND THE BLOGOSPHERE. CREATE CONNECTIONS BETWEEN BLOGS AND SHARE LINKS TO OTHERS BLOGS ON YOURS.

!!!!!! THE MEN'S AND FATHER'S RIGHTS MOVEMENT IS GROWING BUT WE NEED YOUR HELP!!!!!

MEN: THINK, READ, EDUCATE YOURSELVES ON THIS SUBJECT, SHARE OUR EXPERIENCES WITH EACH OTHER, FORM RANKS, GROUPS, THINK MORE, SPEAK OUT, ACT!!! YOU ARE NOT ALONE, FIGHT NOW AND NEVER LEAVE OTHER MEN BEHIND. WE CAN DO IT!!!

WOMEN HAVE NO FEELINGS TO PROTECT AND PROVIDE FOR YOU. YOU WILL BE LEFT TO ROT AND DIE IN THE STREETS LIKE THE OTHER 85% OF THE HOMELESS THAT ARE MEN.. UNFORTUNATELY IT IS WOMEN WHO HOLD THE VOTE AND SWAY IN POLITICS. PERHAPS WE DON'T HAVE A CHANCE IN HELL BUT WE MUST FIGHT FOR OUR RIGHTS!!!!

According to a conference I attended with the ACFC.org there are three major sources of feminist opposition and funding of the anit-shared parenting lobby and these are as follows:

VAWA or Violence Against Women Act
EMILY'S LIST
THE FEMINIST MAJORITY


WHAT DO YOU THINK? SHOULD MEN BE ALLOWED TO HAVE CONTACT WITH CHILDREN AFTER A DIVORCE? ARE MEN BAD AND MORE HARMFUL TO WOMEN AND CHILDREN THAN GOOD? PLEASE SIGN THE PETITION, WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! SPREAD THE WORD. 35% OF THE AMERICAN COALITION FOR FATHERS AND CHILDREN ARE WOMEN! THIS IS A GOOD SIGN!! AS ALWAYS I LOVE TO HEAR MY READERS COMMENTS.