Thursday, May 20, 2010
Men's Night? Men Are Free and Drinks Are Half Off
Hmmm, I just got back from a local restaurant where prices differ depending on what gender you are. I asked for the half off margarita anyway and the waitress told me the prices are only for women. I told her that I will not be drinking a drink at all then...
Apparently ladies night price schemes are implemented to make a profit. The thought is that since women are inherently valuable and inherently worthy of mating and reproducing, simply by having their presence increases the amount of males who attend.
I am not sure why there have not been class action law suits against businesses who discriminate by gender to make a profit. How does it work if one were to purchase a drink for a female on ladies night? Do you have to specify that the drink is for a female in order to get it at half price or do men pay full price for the privilege to make a drink gift offering present to women?
How is it that women are treated with economic privilege when they are our competition for resources by way of economic & political laws and policy? Why do women expect to be equal yet still feel inherently deserving of being provided for by society and from men?
Why is it ok to implement a business policy that discriminates against men for the sake of making profit yet to allegedly do so to women is against the law? In fact, it is considered so wrongful that Affirmative Action, Title IX and Gender based hiring\ promotion freezes are placed upon men so that women may once again be first, ladies first. Was there ever any policy that discriminated against women to begin with that would warrant discriminatory policies against men?
What is the real reason males are heavily represented in the top ranks of organizations? Is it because men are more driven to compete? Is it because men are more driven to acquire resources? Why would men be more driven toward these things? Does having such things make men more worthy of a female being that males carry no inherent value as a mate and therefore must earn it and furthermore present these earnings as offerings to females? Is this "male privilege" women speak of something men are given or something men earn? Is the male condition in fact even a privilege or choice? Is it ok if we should expect women earn the privileges given to them as well?
Is it just me or is the whole thing a lie and a farce? Is it just me or have women tricked us? Is the truth really that women were never unequal to men but actually more valued and treated better than men all along? Is it just me or has their welfare always been put before and above that of men? Is it just me or is it really that women are not only "equal" to men but in fact hold more privileges and choices in life and society than men do..both in public and private life???
I am not quite sure why so much deference is given to women above men. Why are women always put first? Why do women make sure that they are put first in the event of an emergency? How is it that they do not see men as important and valuable as themselves? Are men responsible for the welfare of women? Do women have any responsibilities toward and for men? Is there any instance in which women defer to men? Is there an instance that women are expected to put men first? Do women have any social obligations toward men and our welfare as men have for women? Can someone explain to me why women are put first above men?
Are women more valuable than men? Are they more important, more lovable, more deserving? Why are women given such privileges and deferred to over men both socially, politically and economically?
Question.... all things apparently being equal, does it make sense to treat men unequally in these realms of public and private life, if so, why? Question....should the welfare of women come first, above and before that of men and if so, why?.........
Apparently ladies night price schemes are implemented to make a profit. The thought is that since women are inherently valuable and inherently worthy of mating and reproducing, simply by having their presence increases the amount of males who attend.
I am not sure why there have not been class action law suits against businesses who discriminate by gender to make a profit. How does it work if one were to purchase a drink for a female on ladies night? Do you have to specify that the drink is for a female in order to get it at half price or do men pay full price for the privilege to make a drink gift offering present to women?
How is it that women are treated with economic privilege when they are our competition for resources by way of economic & political laws and policy? Why do women expect to be equal yet still feel inherently deserving of being provided for by society and from men?
Why is it ok to implement a business policy that discriminates against men for the sake of making profit yet to allegedly do so to women is against the law? In fact, it is considered so wrongful that Affirmative Action, Title IX and Gender based hiring\ promotion freezes are placed upon men so that women may once again be first, ladies first. Was there ever any policy that discriminated against women to begin with that would warrant discriminatory policies against men?
What is the real reason males are heavily represented in the top ranks of organizations? Is it because men are more driven to compete? Is it because men are more driven to acquire resources? Why would men be more driven toward these things? Does having such things make men more worthy of a female being that males carry no inherent value as a mate and therefore must earn it and furthermore present these earnings as offerings to females? Is this "male privilege" women speak of something men are given or something men earn? Is the male condition in fact even a privilege or choice? Is it ok if we should expect women earn the privileges given to them as well?
Is it just me or is the whole thing a lie and a farce? Is it just me or have women tricked us? Is the truth really that women were never unequal to men but actually more valued and treated better than men all along? Is it just me or has their welfare always been put before and above that of men? Is it just me or is it really that women are not only "equal" to men but in fact hold more privileges and choices in life and society than men do..both in public and private life???
I am not quite sure why so much deference is given to women above men. Why are women always put first? Why do women make sure that they are put first in the event of an emergency? How is it that they do not see men as important and valuable as themselves? Are men responsible for the welfare of women? Do women have any responsibilities toward and for men? Is there any instance in which women defer to men? Is there an instance that women are expected to put men first? Do women have any social obligations toward men and our welfare as men have for women? Can someone explain to me why women are put first above men?
Are women more valuable than men? Are they more important, more lovable, more deserving? Why are women given such privileges and deferred to over men both socially, politically and economically?
Question.... all things apparently being equal, does it make sense to treat men unequally in these realms of public and private life, if so, why? Question....should the welfare of women come first, above and before that of men and if so, why?.........
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
MRA Letter to my Countrymen
Extract from The-Spearhead.com
TO UNIVERSE: THANK YOU SO MUCH for providing historical documents of the Men’s and Father’s Rights Movement and the MRA. Such information is crucial to the intellectual formulation and even affirmation of our current state of affliction.
From here it is imperative to coalesce into a political force with secular representation for our gender at the Federal level as women now have.. Once we get there we shall decide whether to dismantle The Council On Women and Girls or create a Council On Men and Boys…
Personally sir, I do not think our founding fathers of my dear Republic believed that we should have secular representation within government for gender, race, or religion and as such I am for dismantling the female apparatus of secular laws and representation post haste and by bearing arms if need be. Mentioning our Rights in this article is different from my avocation for a call to arms. It is necessary for our people to remember our spirit and our heritage.
“The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.” — Thomas Jefferson
Quite frankly I am viscerally aware that my Republic and my country beckon our call. Be assured that I love my countrywoman dearly and wish her no harm but that we as men must restore our Constitutional Republic..
I have a very simple request and that is that we remember what Freedom, Liberty, Independence, Justice and equal representation under law actually means.
Gentlemen and ladies if you will, please know that our greatest issues stem from the overreach of our government and the associated parasites such as feminism that feast upon our Liberty.
I very honestly tell you that I think something is terribly wrong with our Republic and the things for which it currently stands. I do think we should mobilize in peaceful assembly with great haste if we are to save it. I only dare say to take arms but our founders left that as a last option……Under no circumstances should the American people surrender our arms to Government.
The form of government secured by the Declaration of Independence, the American Revolution, and the Constitution is unique in history and reflects the strongly held beliefs of the American Revolutionaries.
At the close of the Constitutional Convention in Philadelphia on September 18, 1787, a Mrs. Powel anxiously awaited the results, and as Benjamin Franklin emerged from the long task now finished, asked him directly: “Well Doctor, what have we got, a republic or a monarchy?” “A Republic….. if you can keep it” responded Franklin.
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From the comments section:
Joab said...
"This kind of thing will get your name in an FBI file. If they come for you sooner rather than later, it was nice knowing you! :-)"
I am an American and if my country, my government decides to attack me then I will defend myself. I am not afraid of a government who you believe might label me as a traitor or domestic terrorist as this sir would make it no longer my government.
To infringe upon my personal liberties as you say or to attack my person or home for such reasons as you listed would be an act of war...
I will not be tolerant or apathetic to the plight of my country or it's future security.
If you have not noticed, our country, our Republic is in danger sir...
"Tolerance and apathy are the last virtues of a dying society"
Aristotle
"The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time, with the blood of patriots and tyrants. It is its natural manure."
President Thomas Jefferson
"Currently 90% of fathers loose their children in divorce. Visitation of 4 days a month is the norm. Men have the god given right to be a father. Fatherhood is the natural right of any man, a right that can not be infringed. Men have the right to their own bodies and the fruits of its labors"
"The income gap between the rich and the rest of the US population has become so wide, and is growing so fast, that it might eventually threaten the stability of democratic capitalism itself."
Alan Greenspan, US Federal Reserve Chairman 1987-2006
"The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the states, are reserved to the states respectively or the people"
10th Amendment United States Constitution
"If the American people ever allow private banks to control the issuance of their currency, first by inflation and then by deflation, the banks and corporations that will grow up around them will deprive the people of all their property until their children will wake up homeless on the continent their fathers conquered."
President Thomas Jefferson
"I believe that banking institutions are more dangerous to our liberties than standing armies."
President Thomas Jefferson
"Our Founding Fathers knew the importance of the separation of church and state but failed to enact the need for separation of corporation from state and for that matter race and gender"
"I hope we shall crush in its birth the aristocracy of our monied corporations which dare already to challenge our government to a trial by strength, and bid defiance to the laws of our country."
President Thomas Jefferson
"I see in the near future a crisis approaching that unnerves me and causes me to tremble for the safety of my country. Corporations have been enthroned and an era of corruption in high places will follow, and the money power of the country will endeavor to prolong its reign by working upon the prejudices of the people until all wealth is aggregated in a few hands and the Republic is destroyed."
U.S. President Abraham Lincoln
"In the beginning of a change, the Patriot is a scarce man, brave, hated and scorned. When his cause succeeds, however, the timid join him, for then it costs nothing to be a Patriot"
Mark Twain
On Bankers and business elite and the dawn of the "New Deal":
"Practices of the unscrupulous money changers stand indicted in the court of the public opinion, rejected by the hearts and minds of men...The money changers have fled from their high seats in the temple of our civilization" Throughout the nation, men and women, forgotten in the political philosophy of Government, look to us here for guidance and for more equitable opportunity to share in the national wealth. I pledge myself to a new deal for the American people. This is more than a political campaign. It is a call to arms!"
President Franklin D. Roosevelt
"Are you willing to defend this country and give your life to defend what we have become? This is a natural instinct of any man who identifies personally with his country and who's country and culture meets his needs, values and ideals. It becomes a man who inspires his country to meet his. Do you identify with our country? Do you love what we have become?"
"Do not be fooled by those who see you as just another consumer in a market of undifferentiated possibilities, where choice itself becomes the god, novelty usurps beauty, and subjective experience displaces truth."
POPE Benedict XVI
"Any society that would give up a little liberty to gain a little security will deserve neither and lose both."
Benjamin Franklin
"When the people fear their government, there is tyranny; when the government fears the people, there is liberty."
President Thomas Jefferson
"If Tyranny and Oppression come to this land, it will be in the guise of fighting a foreign enemy."
President James Madison
"The power of the Executive to cast a man into prison without formulating any charge known to the law, and particularly to deny him the judgment of his peers, is in the highest degree odious and is the foundation of all totalitarian government whether Nazi or Communist."
Winston Churchill
"Feminism has driven men, women and family apart, destroyed economic principals of free market, incentive for individual free enterprise and in effort to create classlessness and "equality" have created women as a separate class. A systemically created elevated class structure by gender,race or religion with separate civil liberties is a violation of our founding principals as a nation. A Cabinet post created in the highest element of government for the benefit of one gender alone, laws and representation for one gender alone or any race or religion alone will divide and destroy my nation! Such division of class in such respects is the hallmark of fascism in actual definition and in historical practice."
I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them"
President Thomas Jefferson
"No one can make a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could do only a little."
Edmund Burke
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure, than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much because they live in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat."
President Theodore Roosevelt
Sir, I am an American. I am not a traitor.. This is my country and the country of my people. This is our government of the people, by the people and for the people. We have the right to dismantle our government and to do so by taking arms and shedding blood if necessary. This is our right as a free people, it is the right our fathers gave to us as men and it is men alone they entrusted to uphold it and for very good reason. This is not simply a right of our people, it is a moral obligation. Mentioning our Rights in this article is different from a call to arms.
"What country before ever existed a century & a half without a rebellion? & what country can preserve it's liberties if their rulers are not warned from time to time that their people preserve the spirit of resistance? Let them take arms"
-President Thomas Jefferson
"This country, with its institutions, belongs to the people who inhabit it. Whenever they shall grow weary of the existing government, they can exercise their constitutional right of amending it, or their revolutionary right to dismember, or overthrow it"
-President Abraham Lincoln
"Government is not reason, it is not eloquence. It is force, and like fire, it is a dangerous servant and a fearful master."
-President George Washington
Beware the growth of Government, as it is by it's very nature, force, a fearful master, it is tyranny. Do not be afraid my countryman, do not fear our government, the government should fear our people.
"Fascism should more appropriately be called Corporatism because it is a merger of state and corporate power." -Benito Mussolini
A graph of the Distribution of Wealth by globalization and the death of the American Middle class can be seen HERE
TO UNIVERSE: THANK YOU SO MUCH for providing historical documents of the Men’s and Father’s Rights Movement and the MRA. Such information is crucial to the intellectual formulation and even affirmation of our current state of affliction.
From here it is imperative to coalesce into a political force with secular representation for our gender at the Federal level as women now have.. Once we get there we shall decide whether to dismantle The Council On Women and Girls or create a Council On Men and Boys…
Personally sir, I do not think our founding fathers of my dear Republic believed that we should have secular representation within government for gender, race, or religion and as such I am for dismantling the female apparatus of secular laws and representation post haste and by bearing arms if need be. Mentioning our Rights in this article is different from my avocation for a call to arms. It is necessary for our people to remember our spirit and our heritage.
“The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.” — Thomas Jefferson
Quite frankly I am viscerally aware that my Republic and my country beckon our call. Be assured that I love my countrywoman dearly and wish her no harm but that we as men must restore our Constitutional Republic..
I have a very simple request and that is that we remember what Freedom, Liberty, Independence, Justice and equal representation under law actually means.
Gentlemen and ladies if you will, please know that our greatest issues stem from the overreach of our government and the associated parasites such as feminism that feast upon our Liberty.
I very honestly tell you that I think something is terribly wrong with our Republic and the things for which it currently stands. I do think we should mobilize in peaceful assembly with great haste if we are to save it. I only dare say to take arms but our founders left that as a last option……Under no circumstances should the American people surrender our arms to Government.
The form of government secured by the Declaration of Independence, the American Revolution, and the Constitution is unique in history and reflects the strongly held beliefs of the American Revolutionaries.
At the close of the Constitutional Convention in Philadelphia on September 18, 1787, a Mrs. Powel anxiously awaited the results, and as Benjamin Franklin emerged from the long task now finished, asked him directly: “Well Doctor, what have we got, a republic or a monarchy?” “A Republic….. if you can keep it” responded Franklin.
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From the comments section:
Joab said...
"This kind of thing will get your name in an FBI file. If they come for you sooner rather than later, it was nice knowing you! :-)"
I am an American and if my country, my government decides to attack me then I will defend myself. I am not afraid of a government who you believe might label me as a traitor or domestic terrorist as this sir would make it no longer my government.
To infringe upon my personal liberties as you say or to attack my person or home for such reasons as you listed would be an act of war...
I will not be tolerant or apathetic to the plight of my country or it's future security.
If you have not noticed, our country, our Republic is in danger sir...
"Tolerance and apathy are the last virtues of a dying society"
Aristotle
"The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time, with the blood of patriots and tyrants. It is its natural manure."
President Thomas Jefferson
"Currently 90% of fathers loose their children in divorce. Visitation of 4 days a month is the norm. Men have the god given right to be a father. Fatherhood is the natural right of any man, a right that can not be infringed. Men have the right to their own bodies and the fruits of its labors"
"The income gap between the rich and the rest of the US population has become so wide, and is growing so fast, that it might eventually threaten the stability of democratic capitalism itself."
Alan Greenspan, US Federal Reserve Chairman 1987-2006
"The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the states, are reserved to the states respectively or the people"
10th Amendment United States Constitution
"If the American people ever allow private banks to control the issuance of their currency, first by inflation and then by deflation, the banks and corporations that will grow up around them will deprive the people of all their property until their children will wake up homeless on the continent their fathers conquered."
President Thomas Jefferson
"I believe that banking institutions are more dangerous to our liberties than standing armies."
President Thomas Jefferson
"Our Founding Fathers knew the importance of the separation of church and state but failed to enact the need for separation of corporation from state and for that matter race and gender"
"I hope we shall crush in its birth the aristocracy of our monied corporations which dare already to challenge our government to a trial by strength, and bid defiance to the laws of our country."
President Thomas Jefferson
"I see in the near future a crisis approaching that unnerves me and causes me to tremble for the safety of my country. Corporations have been enthroned and an era of corruption in high places will follow, and the money power of the country will endeavor to prolong its reign by working upon the prejudices of the people until all wealth is aggregated in a few hands and the Republic is destroyed."
U.S. President Abraham Lincoln
"In the beginning of a change, the Patriot is a scarce man, brave, hated and scorned. When his cause succeeds, however, the timid join him, for then it costs nothing to be a Patriot"
Mark Twain
On Bankers and business elite and the dawn of the "New Deal":
"Practices of the unscrupulous money changers stand indicted in the court of the public opinion, rejected by the hearts and minds of men...The money changers have fled from their high seats in the temple of our civilization" Throughout the nation, men and women, forgotten in the political philosophy of Government, look to us here for guidance and for more equitable opportunity to share in the national wealth. I pledge myself to a new deal for the American people. This is more than a political campaign. It is a call to arms!"
President Franklin D. Roosevelt
"Are you willing to defend this country and give your life to defend what we have become? This is a natural instinct of any man who identifies personally with his country and who's country and culture meets his needs, values and ideals. It becomes a man who inspires his country to meet his. Do you identify with our country? Do you love what we have become?"
"Do not be fooled by those who see you as just another consumer in a market of undifferentiated possibilities, where choice itself becomes the god, novelty usurps beauty, and subjective experience displaces truth."
POPE Benedict XVI
"Any society that would give up a little liberty to gain a little security will deserve neither and lose both."
Benjamin Franklin
"When the people fear their government, there is tyranny; when the government fears the people, there is liberty."
President Thomas Jefferson
"If Tyranny and Oppression come to this land, it will be in the guise of fighting a foreign enemy."
President James Madison
"The power of the Executive to cast a man into prison without formulating any charge known to the law, and particularly to deny him the judgment of his peers, is in the highest degree odious and is the foundation of all totalitarian government whether Nazi or Communist."
Winston Churchill
"Feminism has driven men, women and family apart, destroyed economic principals of free market, incentive for individual free enterprise and in effort to create classlessness and "equality" have created women as a separate class. A systemically created elevated class structure by gender,race or religion with separate civil liberties is a violation of our founding principals as a nation. A Cabinet post created in the highest element of government for the benefit of one gender alone, laws and representation for one gender alone or any race or religion alone will divide and destroy my nation! Such division of class in such respects is the hallmark of fascism in actual definition and in historical practice."
I predict future happiness for Americans if they can prevent the government from wasting the labors of the people under the pretense of taking care of them"
President Thomas Jefferson
"No one can make a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could do only a little."
Edmund Burke
"Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure, than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much because they live in the gray twilight that knows neither victory nor defeat."
President Theodore Roosevelt
Sir, I am an American. I am not a traitor.. This is my country and the country of my people. This is our government of the people, by the people and for the people. We have the right to dismantle our government and to do so by taking arms and shedding blood if necessary. This is our right as a free people, it is the right our fathers gave to us as men and it is men alone they entrusted to uphold it and for very good reason. This is not simply a right of our people, it is a moral obligation. Mentioning our Rights in this article is different from a call to arms.
"What country before ever existed a century & a half without a rebellion? & what country can preserve it's liberties if their rulers are not warned from time to time that their people preserve the spirit of resistance? Let them take arms"
-President Thomas Jefferson
"This country, with its institutions, belongs to the people who inhabit it. Whenever they shall grow weary of the existing government, they can exercise their constitutional right of amending it, or their revolutionary right to dismember, or overthrow it"
-President Abraham Lincoln
"Government is not reason, it is not eloquence. It is force, and like fire, it is a dangerous servant and a fearful master."
-President George Washington
Beware the growth of Government, as it is by it's very nature, force, a fearful master, it is tyranny. Do not be afraid my countryman, do not fear our government, the government should fear our people.
"Fascism should more appropriately be called Corporatism because it is a merger of state and corporate power." -Benito Mussolini
A graph of the Distribution of Wealth by globalization and the death of the American Middle class can be seen HERE
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Women's Leaders Request Right To Desertion From Combat
This is not our fathers military!
I have no doubt that Women’s Party leaders will not back down on this issue. Just as they did with divorce law, child custody law, “women first” laws like Title IX and Affirmative Action, mandated government contracts to women owned businesses, the diversion of the Stimulus Package to women, women support alimony, etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc. YOU NAME IT…! I’ve come to learn that women have an innate sense of entitlement.
Women and their leaders WILL succeed in their demands to “control their own bodies”. We must remember, women’s bodies and the fruits of its labor are theirs and theirs alone. Women have no obligation of duty and sacrifice. They don’t understand what being a soldier and service to country means. Duty, Honor, Valor, Sacrifice and Bravery don’t seem to be attributable to females.
Men’s bodies are for service of women and from the age of 18 on, for the service of country. Women have no obligation or duty to men but “choices”. Women have no obligation or duty to country……
Men’s children are owned by women as well.
It’s just they way it is. There is no equivalent for women as they have no responsibilities but “choices”. There is no equivalent word for women to “man-up”.
It is only expected that women will be given leeway when it comes to the crimes of desertion and cowardice as both of these things are simply more expected from women.
Women’s Party leaders will ensure that females have all the rights without responsibility, honor or accountability. They already have such in the rest of society, I don’t see how the military expects to end up much different.
What We Want In A Woman
Hmmm..... an author over at The-Spearhead posed the question....
"I’d like to invite readers to comment on some of the things that they actually do like about women. What are those things that can make you fall for a girl? What sets her apart from the others?"
I'd like to share my answer with you here....
Wow, where to start. I’ve always admired a quality in women that could be described as grace. To me female grace would imply a woman who is not selfish and will forfeit the spoils of good graces from men in the name of the higher ideal of reciprocal obligation, truth, respect, honor and responsibility. She would exhibit a tepid trepidation toward the idea of receiving excesses to suit her selfish and self centered desires.
A woman who is capable of nurturing, selflessness, empathy and who is giving only "opens up the door for me" to bestow my honor upon her. Someone who likes children, animals and nature.. I do think that women who are not spoiled by their youth, beauty and inherent attraction to men for the simple fact that she exists is very hard to come by. I do find that this is even more difficult to find a woman with grace if she is physically beautiful.
I also want qualities of grace that I could only describe as motherly qualities.
I want a woman who understands that she does not have ownership over children as if they were property and values the role of a father in the life of children.
I want someone who values the obligations and role of husband and father and will not exploit my honor and trust by taking my beloved child away from me and forcing me to financially support her and what she sees as “her” child by reducing me to the role of “Isolated Resource Producing Male” . It is simply the fact that women have the right to do the above by law that I can not bestow my honor upon one in marriage. It is because they have ownership of children that I am unwilling and unable to secure the honor of being a father.
I want a woman who believes that it should not be equality (sameness to men), independence (mutual or exploitative dis-need) , freedom and liberation (mutual dis-need) that reigns but difference, dependence, bondage and servitude that consecrates us and makes sacred our married bond.
I want a woman who will not abandon her family as so many do in much greater proportion than do men, especially if there are children involved. I want a woman that understands that her “choices” should not be enabled by male liabilities.
I simply want a woman who is not selfish and self centered as so many have become now in character and by law. I want a woman who respects sexuality and could only wish that sex did not play such a public and promiscuous role in her interactions with men in society and as now a part of her public identity. In essence someone who does not believe that females should be “sex objects”.
To me however all women are presumptively sexually available and this changes everything. It changes how I view and interact with women in general and how they view and interact with me. Though I do not pursue women for sex anymore I find that the modern woman’s identity of presumptive sexual availability affects virtually every aspect of even the most innocent, innocuous and benign interaction. I simply wish that if I were to interact with a woman at a bar or party that she was not a “sex object”. To me, all women are now sex objects.
She knows that by definition of social culture and morays that sex is on the table and as such a potential motive for my every action and potential motive for her action. It is now an inseparable part of our public relationship. I used to enjoy this quite a bit but I find myself wanting something more fulfilling, and now more than ever simply wish it were not this way. Perhaps it is something within females that will temper and recede with age. As for now I will have to maneuver around her inherent sense of value, an acute narcissism that seems to afflict the most physically desirable of females the most.
This is something of which men who are successful with women or those who care to bother pursuing her understand quite well. They promptly set about the laborious process of negating her inherent value and sense of self. It is the case that women are inherently desired, valued and worthy of men. No one speaks of the female ego so I will do so here and now. So for those who do not know, the inherent worthiness of her sex is where it comes from and this is the basis for which her ego is comprised.
Upon the most momentary of interactions I find myself repulsed by this commonality which I've found to be present in many modern, even remotely desirable woman. I wish it were removed and female grace, a type of humility and refinement would take its place. To me anyway, this is a virtually ubiquitous affliction of what could and would ordinarily be the most eligible of young, beautiful and fertile women in our culture.
I find it most disturbing that I do not honor what has become of her. I don't think women are inherently like this but rather it is something that most certainly is cultivated by American culture and values. For those of you who are students of Game, game on. As for me, a dignified conversation will suffice and a long slow process of courtship is ideal. Sexing women is something I am now indifferent to. I no longer engage the hook-up culture and for quite some time have taken respite from it. Perhaps such is the plight placed upon us by the American Cultural Revolution & "female sexual liberation" as they call it. Such is now our common struggle. Many women will ride this train until the dwindling twilight of their most fertile years...........
I also want a woman that is physically beautiful but again I must say that such an asset, in our culture anyway, often predicates a diametric opposition to the qualities for which to me, make for a truly wonderful, beautiful, endearing and desirable woman. One who could indeed hold the most sacred position to me in my family, a wife and mother.
This post was inspired by the-spearhead.com you can continue the conversation HERE
"I’d like to invite readers to comment on some of the things that they actually do like about women. What are those things that can make you fall for a girl? What sets her apart from the others?"
I'd like to share my answer with you here....
Wow, where to start. I’ve always admired a quality in women that could be described as grace. To me female grace would imply a woman who is not selfish and will forfeit the spoils of good graces from men in the name of the higher ideal of reciprocal obligation, truth, respect, honor and responsibility. She would exhibit a tepid trepidation toward the idea of receiving excesses to suit her selfish and self centered desires.
A woman who is capable of nurturing, selflessness, empathy and who is giving only "opens up the door for me" to bestow my honor upon her. Someone who likes children, animals and nature.. I do think that women who are not spoiled by their youth, beauty and inherent attraction to men for the simple fact that she exists is very hard to come by. I do find that this is even more difficult to find a woman with grace if she is physically beautiful.
I also want qualities of grace that I could only describe as motherly qualities.
I want a woman who understands that she does not have ownership over children as if they were property and values the role of a father in the life of children.
I want someone who values the obligations and role of husband and father and will not exploit my honor and trust by taking my beloved child away from me and forcing me to financially support her and what she sees as “her” child by reducing me to the role of “Isolated Resource Producing Male” . It is simply the fact that women have the right to do the above by law that I can not bestow my honor upon one in marriage. It is because they have ownership of children that I am unwilling and unable to secure the honor of being a father.
I want a woman who believes that it should not be equality (sameness to men), independence (mutual or exploitative dis-need) , freedom and liberation (mutual dis-need) that reigns but difference, dependence, bondage and servitude that consecrates us and makes sacred our married bond.
I want a woman who will not abandon her family as so many do in much greater proportion than do men, especially if there are children involved. I want a woman that understands that her “choices” should not be enabled by male liabilities.
I simply want a woman who is not selfish and self centered as so many have become now in character and by law. I want a woman who respects sexuality and could only wish that sex did not play such a public and promiscuous role in her interactions with men in society and as now a part of her public identity. In essence someone who does not believe that females should be “sex objects”.
To me however all women are presumptively sexually available and this changes everything. It changes how I view and interact with women in general and how they view and interact with me. Though I do not pursue women for sex anymore I find that the modern woman’s identity of presumptive sexual availability affects virtually every aspect of even the most innocent, innocuous and benign interaction. I simply wish that if I were to interact with a woman at a bar or party that she was not a “sex object”. To me, all women are now sex objects.
She knows that by definition of social culture and morays that sex is on the table and as such a potential motive for my every action and potential motive for her action. It is now an inseparable part of our public relationship. I used to enjoy this quite a bit but I find myself wanting something more fulfilling, and now more than ever simply wish it were not this way. Perhaps it is something within females that will temper and recede with age. As for now I will have to maneuver around her inherent sense of value, an acute narcissism that seems to afflict the most physically desirable of females the most.
This is something of which men who are successful with women or those who care to bother pursuing her understand quite well. They promptly set about the laborious process of negating her inherent value and sense of self. It is the case that women are inherently desired, valued and worthy of men. No one speaks of the female ego so I will do so here and now. So for those who do not know, the inherent worthiness of her sex is where it comes from and this is the basis for which her ego is comprised.
Upon the most momentary of interactions I find myself repulsed by this commonality which I've found to be present in many modern, even remotely desirable woman. I wish it were removed and female grace, a type of humility and refinement would take its place. To me anyway, this is a virtually ubiquitous affliction of what could and would ordinarily be the most eligible of young, beautiful and fertile women in our culture.
I find it most disturbing that I do not honor what has become of her. I don't think women are inherently like this but rather it is something that most certainly is cultivated by American culture and values. For those of you who are students of Game, game on. As for me, a dignified conversation will suffice and a long slow process of courtship is ideal. Sexing women is something I am now indifferent to. I no longer engage the hook-up culture and for quite some time have taken respite from it. Perhaps such is the plight placed upon us by the American Cultural Revolution & "female sexual liberation" as they call it. Such is now our common struggle. Many women will ride this train until the dwindling twilight of their most fertile years...........
I also want a woman that is physically beautiful but again I must say that such an asset, in our culture anyway, often predicates a diametric opposition to the qualities for which to me, make for a truly wonderful, beautiful, endearing and desirable woman. One who could indeed hold the most sacred position to me in my family, a wife and mother.
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