Thursday, April 8, 2010

Men IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT!.....ALL OF IT!

Just thought I'd show you all what women are doing on the local college campuses these days.... Right this way boys, welcome to school :)

THANK YOU: Campus Feminist Alliance


WOW, Thanks for the info ladies.

I had no idea men were responsible for:

Sexism
Rape
Sexual Abuse
Domestic Violence
Incest
Gay Bashing
Torture
War

We will get right on it ladies. We'll fix it all right up for ya.
Men, in case you didn't get the message you are responsible for all bad things and evil in the world.

Lets make a poster! We shall make this poster VERY LARGE, WEATHER PROOF, and hung with steel cable. It shall be a permanent poster, a permanent statement on campus for all women to see as they enter campus every day!

"WOMEN YOU CAN STOP"
-Sexism
-sexual extortion
-sexual abuse
-prostitution
-financial extortion
-domestic violence
-paternity fraud
-legalized female adultery under Marriage 2.0 laws
-child abuse
-child murder
-parental alienation
-heterosexual bashing
-"women first" college admission polices like Title IX and Affirmative Action
-divorce
-fatherless children
-war.... by obtaining your own territory and resources AND GOING TO YOUR OWN CORNER OF THE PLANET WHERE I'M SURE THERE WILL BE RAINBOWS, BUTTERFLYS AND BIRDS SINGING ON YOUR SHOULDER FOR EVER AND EVER.

I'll tell you what, we will even send some men over to clear the area, gather and cut the lumbar, hovel down in filthy death trap holes and mine the earth for the concrete, aggregate and iron ore for the rebar, build a damn, divert the water to you, mine a years worth of coal, oil, plutonium and build a power plant for you....ALL FOR YOU, just so you can leave us alone! Who knows we may mine some diamonds for you while we're down there...to commit to you..no no no so you will leave us alone. Men are the only ones who lose and have responsibilities when women break commitments to us, you should know that....

Then we can finally have some peace. We can finally stop competing with each other for the privilege to do all these things for you. I blame YOU for the male condition. It is YOU who makes men do this to each other. YOU are the cause of our pain and suffering. Women, tell me you know this is true. How does that feel? Shall I make a poster? How dare you, you don't know what pain and suffering is! How dare you be so selfish and self centered. YOU DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO DEFINE THE MALE CONDITION AS YOU, WOMEN ARE THE CAUSE OF IT! YOU ARE THE CAUSE OF THE HATED "PATRIARCHY" OF WHICH YOU SPEAK. IT IS YOU THAT DRIVES MEN TO THIS! SHALL WE MAKE A POSTER!!!
IT IS YOU WHO HAS DONE THIS TO HIM. WOMAN \ FEMALE, YOU ARE THE CAUSE OF ALL OF THIS! SHALL I MAKE A POSTER TO SHAME YOU WITH AS YOU HAVE DONE TO MEN??? YOU KNOW? NO YOU DON'T KNOW! YOUR INABILITY TO LISTEN AND UNDERSTAND MEN IS QUITE FOOLISH OF YOU. NOW WATCH THE ENTIRE VIDEO::


LADIES, YOU HAVE DONE THIS TO HIM. WOMAN HAS DONE THIS TO HIM. IT IS YOU THAT MAKES US FIGHT AND DOMINATE TERRITORY AND RESOURCES, NOT FOR OURSELVES BUT FOR YOU! HOW DARE YOU BLAME MEN FOR THE MALE CONDITION!!! HOW DARE YOU SHAME HIM! HOW DARE YOU NOT RESPECT MEN. SHALL WE MEN MAKE A POSTER AND HANG IT ON CAMPUS TO SHAME AND BELITTLE YOU WITH? LET ME MAKE SOMETHING CLEAR, I SAT THROUGH YOUR "WOMEN'S STUDIES COURSE" IN SCHOOL!

This cartoon is what you tried to tell myself and young women about the nature of men. A grossly simplistic and insulting insinuation, a character of a young, obviously progressive young lady rolling her eyes at the animal nature of males. You sold the notion that women are of a higher moral standing than men, that women can save the world if only male social construct of masculinity was eliminated, the male dominated "Patriarchy" of male violence, oppression and tyranny.

YOU DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO TELL ME ABOUT THE NATURE OF MEN. YOU DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO LIE TO ME ABOUT MY MASCULINITY AND MY MALE NATURE!

You insulted me and talked down about men the entire semester! "The Patriarchy" and males were the source of female oppression and all the worlds problems.... YOU HURT ME AND INSULTED ME FOR AN ENTIRE SEMESTER AND I'M HERE TO DEFEND THE HONOR OF MEN! FEMINISM DOES NOT BELONG IN THE SCIENCE WING OF OUR COLLEGE INSTITUTIONS, IT DOESN'T BELONG ANYWHERE!

I'll tell you what, lets erase all the lines between countries that are all drawn by the blood of men and the stacked bodies of dead boys and let you ladies decide who gets what..I'll tell you what, we can all share, that's a great idea. It would be interesting to see how much you leave for men. Anyway, just make sure you keep us restrained during this process otherwise you're likely to let us do everything for you as you have always done. We may also start brutally competing with each other for these things because it's what gets us mating opportunity with you.

All for what???

WHAT RECIPROCAL BLESSINGS DO YOU BESTOW UPON MEN??? What's that you say, you build and conceive life itself from your body, initiate 70% of all divorce, take this blessing of our beloved child away from us and make us do all of the above for you and support you and "your" child anyway..

What's that you say, you nurture and care for us, how exactly do you do that? Nurturing, caring for and tending to men and your family is considered oppression of women, especially caring for children, that's what day care centers are for. What's that you say, food, nurturing sustenance no no no American Cuisine and family recipes died with your grandmother you should know that..Please, I implore you, what is it that you do for men??? What obligations and responsibilities do you have that you can't walk away from??? You talk so much about how many "choices" women should have. Lets sit down and talk sometime about who has "choices" and who has no choices but responsibilities to support and enable women's "choices" shall we...

Lets compare the exchange of your inherent precious value for male external utility shall we? Let's see who's body is who's choice. Lets see who is oppressing who...SHALL WE...YES WE SHALL LADIES.

Now, let me make something perfectly clear ladies...
Male destructivness is in proportion if not infinitesimal to male constructiveness. If men did mainly harm with our aggression we would be in a world of shit. Men are designed to utilize resources to supportlife. To build and support, provide and protect. This is male aggression at its finest and the side of his aggression that is most predominant. Men are wonderful and beautiful... and we all, especially women should be so grateful for the sacrifices of men, what a blessing strong, masculine, aggressive men are to women and to humanity.

"Traditional male traits such as aggression, competitiveness, risk-taking and stoicism—constrained by virtues of valor, honor and self-sacrifice—are essential to the well-being and safety of our society." -Christina Hoff Sommers- Anti Feminist and Men's Rights Activist

"Masculinity is the most creative cultural force in history. When I cross…any of America’s great bridges, I think—men have done this." -Camille Paglia-

We will just let you join these men below...Yes, this is where it all comes from, ALL OF IT, EVERYTHING you see around you came from male hard labor and 95% of all working deaths. Care to join the pain and suffering or end up one of the 85% of the homeless that are men....ladies...any takers??? How about 80+ percent of all suicides??? Come on, don't be scared but I've got to warn you it's a lonely place where no one cares for your welfare anymore. A FEDERAL OFFICE ON MEN'S HEALTH no no no those are for you my dear, you have 7 or more now as I recall. Is there any more male health we can sacrifice for you??? Look at the very very bottom, where you will find the majority of medical afflictions, deformations, retardation, learning disabled, poor and ill health, early death etc. Come on join the club of "male privilege". Ever look below the "glass floor" ladies?? It's a dark, desolate, lonely place that rarely a woman falls through.







AND FINALLY, men do what we do and our nature is what it is because you made it that way. Men have been selected for and breed by you to become EXACTLY what you needed us to be. It is YOU who places such value on male external utility. It is you who demands and makes us produce for you. You are the source of your own dependence. Men dominate what you demand we dominate. When women, will you truly be independent as this is the day you will not need us anymore. PLEASE STOP needing us for anything. STOP belittling men for your dependency.

When will you liberate men from our servitude to you that you call oppression...When? When will you stop competing with men for the vary things you demand from us? When will you stop enacting public policies to handicap us from doing so?

Women you can STOP laying around on your lazy asses while men do all the heavy lifting of providing and protecting, acquiring, building, fixing, maintaining and utilizing resources to support life. You can stop complaining, be "strong and independent" ladies AND LEAVE MEN ALONE! You can do so especially after you divorce us, take our property, our children and force us to financially support you and "your" child. You are the most privileged class of human being, along side children. Now, close your mouths and show some respect and reciprocal obligation.....

Are duty, honor, self sacrifice and commitment only something men do? Is it not your turn to get down on your knees in front of the feet of men and offer us gold and diamond rings you mined from the Earth??? Woman, it's your turn to drown yourselves in the cold icy waters of unyielding dedication to the welfare of men. I'm challenging your vaillantry (valor) woman. Hath not woman (valor) vaillantry? Will you not sacrifice for our welfare as we have done for you???

Is there a nurturing, compassionate ounce of dedication and servitude to men left in you?? I don't even need to express to you the legions of men who publicly advocate for your welfare and the men who do so quietly in their private lives SOMETIMES BY FORCE OF THE LAW. Little have I witnessed the same from women. Does your sense of victimhood and entitlement really run that deep? Yes, given your separatist, competitive, secular, political disposition and gynocentric focus on your own welfare it certainly does...

GIVE MEN AND FATHERS OUR EQUAL RIGHTS!

Give men the dignity and respect we deserve. Honor men and our place in society and in the family or simply stay far away from men as we want nothing to do with you otherwise. You should know that by the demands women place on us we do our best to bear our burdens in silence, taking it like men, getting tough or dying, sucking it up, manning up etc. We do so because it makes our external utility a slightly bit higher than the next man....Do you know why?

I can assure you of one thing, when men start complaining that we are in pain you had better listen as the breaking point is near and in many cases has already passed and in some cases this passing of energy can be extremely violent, somewhat akin to a supernova, a self termination if you're lucky and something else if you are not. Increasingly I fear it will be a combination of both.

SHALL I INFORM YOU THAT YOU HAVE DONE THIS TO US, that you are the cause of our pain???..SHALL I MAKE A POSTER??? YET YOU NEGLECT TO REALIZE THIS and tend nothing to him...TELL US WOMAN, HOW SHALL MAN SERVE YOU MORE? YOUR SERVITUDE AND EMPATHY FOR THE WELFARE OF MEN IS OPPRESSION YOU SAY?

"The personal is political" you say? INDEED, it now is and as a result THE MALE GENDER NEEDS TO ORGANIZE AS A SOCIO-POLITICAL CLASS WITH REPRESENTATION AT THE FEDERAL LEVEL as women now do to stem the tide you have turned. You have made "the personal political" as you set out to do 40 years ago, 0 hour, D-DAY, the beginning of "SECOND WAVE" FEMINISM.

How long are men going to allow this type of thing without responding or reacting? How long do posters like this have to stay hanging in young men's faces before they tear them down and burn them? When will men have representation and a voice within our universities! For god sake, when are men going to start defending our honor? SHALL WE MAKE BLANKET accusational posters toward women? When are men going to form ranks and fight back? When will we formulate a response? When will we demand to enter the intellectual discourse that now pervades universities? When will we confront the feminist hegemony?

Do feminists fear their ideology is not compatible to even so much as a dialectical relationship? Dialectical Totality suggests that contradictions in a relationship are part of a unified whole and cannot be understood in isolation. We shall find out soon enough..Open intellectual discourse is on the horizon..Men will no longer have to fear losing their jobs when we speak openly in academia!....The time has come and MALE STUDIES NOT FEMINIST "MEN'S STUDIES" IS ON THE HORIZON AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO STOP IT!

Men are beginning to fight to restore our sacred bond with you, a bond that has been sullied, desecrated, demeaned, profited off of, humiliated and exploited. You have made chivalry toward women a for profit industry and done incredible harm to men, boys, husbands, fathers and the family itself in the process. Woman it is you and your beliefs. Woman it is your actions, your Women's Feminist leaders who are killing something within men. You seek to kill a sense of respect, duty and honor toward women and family, the chivalry you are killing in him, the father and husband in him.

I ask you what is woman to men if she is not honorable? What is woman if her station and social identity is not wife and mother? What is woman when she becomes men's liability and responsibility without reciprocal obligation, duty and commitment? What is she when she is our competition socially, politically and economically? Beware your Feminist Leaders Women, watch closely what they are doing. YOU WILL DO THIS NO MORE!.............

25 comments:

Puma said...

Men leaves the house for a few hours to run errands (grocieries, bills, etc). Wife and child stay home. Wife goes crazy and kills child (her own biological child).

Wife gets off on plea of insanity. Man gets 10 years for "neglectfully leaving child with crazy mom".

http://www.myfoxdfw.com/dpp/news/040110-dad-gets-10-years-for-leaving-son-with-psychotic-wife

So this is what women are talking about? A woman commits murder, and a man goes to jail for her crime?

Joab said...

Don't worry, all this will end when Islam takes over our Disneyland society and women will really get the shaft. I don't know why men in Europe (soon to be Eurabia)are afraid of Muslims. When the Arabs take over, menw ill get to be in the driver's seat again, never have to fear a woman's lies, and what will it cost? Growing a beard? It's a deal!

Joab said...

Don't worry, all this will end when Islam takes over our Disneyland society and women will really get the shaft. I don't know why men in Europe (soon to be Eurabia)are afraid of Muslims. When the Arabs take over, menw ill get to be in the driver's seat again, never have to fear a woman's lies, and what will it cost? Growing a beard? It's a deal!

Pattaya Blog said...

the dad def made a bad decision somehow i don't think any time in jail will put things right.

Anonymous said...

In his report, “War and Gender,” University of Massachusetts political scientist Joshua Goldstein documents how women have actively encouraged military adventurism, both in modern and indigenous societies, and that in the face of imminent conflict, women goad their men into combat. For example:

- During the American Revolutionary War, women were known to withhold sexual favors from reluctant fighters.

- During the American Civil War, Southern belles refused to accept suitors who did not take up arms.

- In World War I, British women organized the White Feather campaign in which they gave a white feather to men who refused to fight, as a sign of their unmanliness.

- Among the Bedouin, frenzied Rwala women bare their breasts and urge their men to war.

- Before the 1973 coup in Chile, women threw corn at soldiers to taunt them as “chickens.”

- During the era of the Soviet Gulag, female interrogators were just as ruthless as their male counterparts in extracting confessions.

- In the Rwanda genocide, Hutu women played a major role in killing Tutsi men:

“Women of every social category took part in the killings. … Some women killed with their own hands. … Women and girls in their teens joined the crowds that surrounded churches, hospitals and other places of refuge. Wielding machetes and nail-studded clubs, they excelled as “cheerleaders” of the genocide, ululating the killers into action.” African Rights report, Rwanda – Not So Innocent: When Women Become Killers, August 1995.)

As Warren Farrell, Ph.D. put it, "Forcing only men to register for the draft in case the country goes to war is just as sexist as forcing women to register to get pregnant in case the country needs more babies." Warren Farrell, Ph.D., "The Myth of Male Power."

Bwec said...

Some of the tension involved in the "battle of the sexes", the gender war is that females are now in competition with males for the vary resources that garners males mating opportunity...

It would be one thing if we were placed on an equal playing field for such things but unfortunately the male has been personified in government and has become so chivalrous in providing to women it has been so gracious as to disenfranchise males with "women first" laws like Title IX and Affirmative Action, women only scholarships and loans, hiring freezes, male expendability through "resource provision transferability" in alimony and child support etc etc etc....

When government interferes with the natural dynamic it causes conflict between men and women...MEN KNOW THAT WOMEN ARE INCREASINGLY HANDICAPPING US FROM PRODUCING RESOURCES WITH THESE LAWS! WOMEN ARE ALSO CONTROLLING THE RESOURCES THAT MEN DO PRODUCE BY FORCE OF LAW...EVEN AFTER DIVORCE!!!!

MEN DO NOT OWN THE RIGHTS TO OUR OWN BODIES AND THE FRUITS OF ITS LABOR. MEN ARE NOT GIVEN EQUAL OPPORTUNITIES TO COMPETE WITH FEMALES FOR THE RESOURCES THEY DEMAND FROM US....THEY DON'T WANT EQUAL OPPORTUNITY THEY WANT EQUAL OUTCOME WITH MALES BY UNEQUAL MEANS.....

IT IS NOT FAIR WHAT WOMEN ARE DOING!

Anonymous said...

Great article mate! Keep it up!

Anonymous said...

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you are so fucking stupid
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Crystal said...

1) Uh, that sign is not saying that men are responsible for those things. It is saying that they can help stop them. Which they can and do. And so can women. I really don't understand what issue you could possibly take with that.

2) My "station and social identity" is certainly not wife and mother, and I am plenty of other meaningful, worthwhile things. I really don't think you comprehend what you are trying to attack.

Bwec said...

CRYSTAL: YOU SAY: "Uh, that sign is not saying that men are responsible for those things."

That's a very sweet thought Crystal. I know you may wish different but this is not the case. I've attended a Women's Studies class and understand what their portrayal of masculinity is and the male condition.. Just so you know, women don't have the right to define the male condition. I'm thankful Male Studies is on the horizon to solve the problem.

Women have desecrated and legislated against the honor of men for some time now... I can tell that you're an amateur when it comes to keeping track of the actions of your sisters.

I don't expect you to follow as closely, you are not the one who has anything to lose. You are the beneficiary. I don't expect you to notice, follow or understand legislation and actions that affect the rights of men,boys,husbands and fathers.

CRYSTAL: YOU SAY: "My "station and social identity" is certainly not wife and mother, and I am plenty of other meaningful, worthwhile things. I really don't think you comprehend what you are trying to attack."

Again, if you are not a member of the family of men then you are my competition in all realms of public and private life. In the case of representation under law by gender, including Federal law, this makes you my class enemy.

You see, my goal is to secure the equal rights of men, boys, fathers and husbands both in family law, state and Federal....

I understood this very quickly when the Stimulus Package was devoted to women upon their lobby and request by the Women's Party Feminists. I understood this very quickly when I hear the administration and congressman speak of the "White Male".

I understood this when the president addresses his constituent voting base as minorities, latinos specifically and women.


I understand we are a nation divided and I will defend my country and its Constitution from the lot of you.

Bwec said...

OH and Crystal, just so you know I've been working closely with Men's Rights groups on campus to create the sign I mentioned and it will be hung....

This will be in the areas on entrance to the campus....

Oh, and like you said in your comment, it's nothing against women, it's just to let you know you can stop these things....

"WOMEN YOU CAN STOP"

-Sexism
-sexual extortion
-sexual abuse
-prostitution
-financial extortion
-domestic violence
-paternity fraud
-child abuse
-child murder
-parental alienation
-heterosexual bashing
-"women first" college admission polices like Title IX and Affirmative Action
-divorce
-fatherless children
-war

Jilly said...

''YOU DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO TELL ME ABOUT THE NATURE OF MEN. YOU DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO LIE TO ME ABOUT MY MASCULINITY AND MY MALE NATURE!''

Then equally you don't have the right to tell me anything about being a woman.

Men and women working together can solve most problems.

I think in the UK - I can't speak for any other country - the only situation in which men are disadvantaged is in child custody issues and in my view a child ought to spend equal time with both parents. There are signs this is changing anyway because more men are becoming the parent who spends most time with the child.

As for war - simple - speak up for yourselves and refuse to fight.

The white feather campaign - instituted by men as a way everyone could help with the war effort and it wasn't just women who did it either is was frequently men as well.

We don't have conscription in the UK and in my opinion both men and women should be conscripted where this still happens. Though I am actually anti war and see no need for it.

Lindsey said...

"I've attended a Women's Studies class and understand what their portrayal of masculinity is and the male condition.. "

Wow, ONE class? That definitely makes you an expert.

You must be homophobic as well, after all this talk about 'the family'?

Bwec said...

"I've attended a Women's Studies class and understand what their portrayal of masculinity is and the male condition.. "

Wow, ONE class? That definitely makes you an expert.


Don't worry, Lindsey men will bring forth the truth from both feminism and feminist "men's studies"



YOU SAY: "You must be homophobic as well, after all this talk about 'the family'?"


Men's, Father's Rights within heterosexual relationships has nothing to do with gay people..

I'm not out to save the world lady, I'm here to protect my prospect of becoming a husband and father and fatherhood.....

I'm here because if I can't win this battle I can't have a family. I've got about 20 years to get the law changed so that my body and the fruits of it's labor is my choice and not a woman's.

I have 20 years to win the right to be a parent and to be a father. However, I am prepared not to ever have a family and don'treally expect that I will win the right to have rights in and be a part of a family...but I will die trying.

eincrouknight said...

The minds of the people who authored that sign, and misandrists in general, seem to be suffering from a distinct lack of imagination; ignorance is not their only failing.

If men, as a class, wanted to subjugate women, as a class, is there any doubt that this would be a trivial task to physically carry out? An effective resistance could only come from good men willing to mount a defense. From top to bottom and evil to good- the state of women is dependent only on the sensibilities of the men around them. Our current American society is unambiguously determined to protect women from subjugation, and this is a goal well worth pursuing.

If men, as a class, were really so terrible, think of how easy it would be to keep women in cages and use them only for breeding. This horrible state of affairs is prevented by one thing and one thing alone: it is not the wish of any class of men. Should this ever become their wish, it would happen, and there would be nothing women could do about it of their own power. This should be a source of pause. Men do not recklessly abuse their physical superiority, rather they go to extreme and often absurd lengths to obtain female approval and consent, even though physical domination is an available and economical option.

The Earth is not a balanced, fair, just or limitless location for human civilization to take up residence. Homo Sapiens lived for hundreds of thousands of years in the mud, and we have made substantial progress in just the past few thousand years. The focus ought not be on the fact that we are not living in a rape-free, cat-call free, violence free civilization. Don't let a lack of imagination prevent you from understanding that all these evils have been far worse in the past, and great expenditures are being made now to stop them. The baseline is not a magical Utopia of the distant future, the default position is chaos and misery; look to our past for a proper perspective.

We should look at what our ancestors worked hard to bring us out of and acknowledge that our lives are objectively better than all that have come before us. We have a long way to go, but let's take it one step at a time and do what can be done right now.

Nobody knows what the peak of human civilization will look like. It may or not be free of war and other human-caused suffering. Focus on the next immediate step to make the current world a better place. This blog tries to identify some injustices going on today that the enlightened people of the future will condemn us for perpetrating.

To the author of this blog: continue what you're doing. I'm very pleased with your tying this feminism business in with the meta-problem of outrageous government encroachment that is destroying our Republic on all imaginable fronts.

Lindsey said...

Wow you infuriate me. It has nothing to do with gay people? You define the family as a man and a woman, with children. How can you not see how heteronormative that is? Why can't a family have 2 moms, or 2 dads?

Don't you dare call me 'lady'.

Exactly, you're thinking about YOURSELF. ME ME ME ME MEME ME

To the last person who commented: I am STILL SCARED TO DEATH OF BEING RAPED. I'm sorry this is such an inconvenience to you, but just because things might be kinda sorta better than they used to be doesn't mean we should just be happy with the status quo. I'm sorry that I expect more out of humankind.

Bwec said...

YOU SAY: "You define the family as a man and a woman, with children."

What other family do you expect I set out to define for myself?

"Why can't a family have 2 moms, or 2 dads?"

Well, I personally don't care who shacks up with who as these people are incapable of reproducing anyway.

If you are speaking about creating male gene milking farms to sell male genes for profit by what celebrity the male most looks like it is already being done.

The only thing I concern myself with is male reproductive rights and reproductive agency. As is current males have no reproductive rights. I am against lesbians and gays exploiting the lack of male reproductive rights to their own benefit.


Lindsey YOU SAY: "To the last person who commented: I am STILL SCARED TO DEATH OF BEING RAPED."

What do yo mean raped? If you are speaking of pathological violent rape this is very rare. Pathological violent rape is not something many men are capable of. It may come as a surprise to but most men are not aroused by attacking and hurting women...does this make sense?

Most "rape" takes place in the home, is non violent, is with someone the person is close to and is under the influence of alcohol and or drugs.

By the way, how did you become so fearful of men and fearful of rape?

Bwec said...

YOU SAY: "Don't you dare call me 'lady'"

I'm sorry..princess is it? I'm sorry princess. I'm not used to the special entitlements that are supposed to be bestowed upon a lady...OPPS I MEAN princess.

When men call each other man it never occurs to us that being called a man is an insult. Grand Matriarch, should I call you Grand Matriarch?

Lindsey said...

Stop being so fucking condescending. It wasn't the word lady, it was your tone, dumbshit.

Yeah, I'm scared of being raped in someone's home, after being drugged. Maybe I'm scared because it seems like I can't have a night out with my girls without being groped. Maybe I'm scared because it has happened to someone I know. I'm scared that one day groping could escalate into something else. I'm scared that I could end up like about half of my friends who have been full on raped, sexually assaulted, coerced into sex, pressured, or taken advantage of when passed out. I HAVE been taken advantage of when passed out. I HAVE been pressured into doing sexual things I didn't want by someone I thought loved me. These things HAVE happened already. So it's not an irrational fear. I would really appreciate it if you stopped making it out to be Not A Big Deal. This is a woman's life, this is our reality. Real inconvenient for you, I know, but it's the truth, this is what we live with.

No one has ever said that "violent pathological rape" was the ONLY way someone can be sexually assaulted. There are numerous ways that men treat me every day that makes me uncomfortable and scared.

Bwec said...

Lindsey, if all of your friends have been raped or sexually assaulted I am very concerned and suspect about your living situation.

First of all, is your family intact? Do you have a father? Where are you and your friends going that you get "groped" on a regular basis?

Where do you all go to hang out with guys, get drunk and pass out? What type of drugs are present and which ones do you or your friends do? I think you should reconsider some of your lifestyle choices and the type of people you associate with.

What you see as normal behavior is not normal at all by both yourself and these young men you hang around.

Justin said...

IT'S NOT THE MEN'S FAULT!!!!! IT'S YOURS!!!! GET OUT OF YOUR MOTHER'S BASEMENT!!

Lindsey said...

Can you read? I didn't say all my friends.

I really don't need a lecture on my lifestyle, I don't do drugs, I don't hang around greasy guys, and I really don't drink that much. Fuck you. There is nothing wrong with me, but there is something wrong with the men who think my body is there for them to play with.

And, "young men"? Oh, honey, I've had my ass groped by MIDDLE AGED MEN on the train in to work, on TWO separate occasions from TWO different men.

And if you must fucking know, which you apparently do, because I guess it's pertinent information, my parents have been happily married for 22 years. What does having a father or no father have to do with this? Nothing.

PLEASE spare me the finger wagging lecture. I know you're a man which means you're smarter and all, but I don't need to reconsider my lifestyle AT ALL. I know what my experiences are, you don't.

Bwec said...

YOU SAY: "What does having a father or no father have to do with this? Nothing."

Having a father has A LOT to do with it. Children without fathers are many times more likely to be involved in the lifestyle choices in question.

Contrary to feminist belief, men are important as members of a family and to the lives of children.

More than 79% of Americans feel the most significant family or social problem facing America is the physical absence of the father from the home. Research shows that the lack of a father in the home correlates closely with crime, educational and emotional problems, teenage pregnancy, and drug and alcohol abuse.

Source: Ad Council United States


I still wonder what your relationship with your family is like. I also wonder about these "nights out" and the "passed out" on alcohol experiences you engage in.

I'm not saying that there is nothing wrong with a man that gropes you but it is important to recognize the environments these things happen in and reconsider this behavior and environments. I know it has been normalized in our culture but "clubbing" and passing out on alcohol are not the best environments for responsible people. They are not environments for responsible men.

I take it that you may live in a large metropolitan city with a quite stratified economic class system.

Most likely the man or men who groped you on the subway were of a lower socioeconomic class. These were most likely low resource males. The same goes for men who "cat call" at women and men who commit crime in general.

There is a reason poverty stricken and otherwise lower resource males behave this way.. I will leave it up to you to answer why.

Jane said...

Those are interesting posters about men and all their sufferings just for women. Warren Farrell studied about what those posters tell the world and came to an understanding that feminism is a thing of the past. In other words, Warren Farrell wanted to reach out to both sexes and suggest that feminism needs to be replaced with humanism. Indeed, Warren Farrell is mindful of the whole scenario in the society-that our understanding towards men and women should be equal and balanced.

Anonymous said...

we need to go down there and "fix" that sign :) also feminists need to leave the site your null and void opinions are not welcome.