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I WOULD LIKE TO REQUEST THAT IF THERE ANY ANY COMMENTS TO ANY OF MY BLOG POSTS TO PLEASE REPLY WITH AN INTELLIGENT ARGUMENT OF LOGIC ESPECIALLY THOSE THAT WANT TO MAKE THE POINT THAT GENDER ROLES OR MALE AND FEMALE BEHAVIOR IS SOLELY A SOCIOLOGICAL CONSTRUCT OF COLLECTIVE CONSCIOUS MALE EFFORT TO OPPRESS WOMEN AND NOT THAT OF OUR ESSENTIAL NATURE OR A COMBINATION OF THE TWO.




These articles are of my own opinion and do not reflect the views or opinion of any other. THEY ARE COLLECTED THOUGHTS THAT ARE CONSTANTLY BEING EDITED, FORMULATED AND RE-EXPRESSED. The plight of women and men and the American family is important to me. My inspiration comes from my experience in a Women's Studies course in college. I was so angry and hurt by their approach and agenda and surprised that such a radical ideology could have established itself in the science and psychology wings of almost all our educational institutions. The hate, division and harm of feminism on our society has become apparent in many ways. Please understand the I LOVE WOMEN and see them as they truly are, BEAUTIFUL. It is for women and my desire to love them and for them to love me that I sacrifce. It is for all the men that are very deeply hurt, shamed and demonized by feminists. It is my fear that feminism may indeed succeed in turning men and myself included into deeply resentful, violent and angry monsters we are purported to be. I have channeled my anger, resentment and deep seated pain into seeking out the truth of our essential nature so that I may be close to her again. To love devote and sacrifice myself to her. To come together to compliment our differences, in the elegant and balanced harmony of dance with my opposite my beautiful compliment that is woman.



It is my contention to intelligently rebuke feminism in contemporary society and in my country the United States. I will illustrate how feminism is a secular divisive special interest idiology which defines itself and women's experience soley in relation to what it affirms is the deliberate collective and concious oppression by men. I will illustrate how it supports it's views by misinformation and refusal to accept modern science, congnitive, evolutionary, biological as false information distributed by The Patriarcy to oppress women. I will illustrate how feminisms view of gender, gender identity and gender roles as a purely social construct established by a collective male concious effort to oppress women is false. And finally I will illustrate how this special interest agenda has caused damage to our society, the relationship of men, women and children and the family. I will show you how pop psychology and pop cultural beliefs have permeated our culture and created a division of men women and family. I will show that the feminist ideal of androgynous society is a false ideology and harmful to us all. I will attempt to bridge the divide between the hate and ideology of feminism and a true understanding of how and why we are the way we are. I will make the case that men and women arrived here together.

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Before you read do know that I LOVE WOMEN VERY MUCH! I have a sharp and particular grievance with modern feminism which you will see intelligently expressed throughout my blog. For women reading my blog please do not dismiss me as you have been taught. Open your heart and mind and see how I feel as a man. See how many men feel. Learn about our essential nature and embrace us once again.



FIRST OFF I DON'T AGREE YOUR VIEW THAT GENDER ROLES AND SOCIETY ARE PURELY A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT BASED OFF CONCIOUS HUMAN REASON ALONE AND YOUR REFUSAL TO BELIVE THAT MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT DIFFERENT. I BELIEVE NOT ONLY ARE WE DIFFERENT BUT WE ARE IN MANY IF NOT ALL RESPECTS EXACT OPPOSITES. MEN AND WOMEN ARE MEANT TO COMPLIMENT EACHOTHERS WEAKNESS. STOP DENYING ESSENTIAL FEMALE STREGHTS AND CALLING THEM WEAKNESSES THAT ARE EXPLOITED BY MEN. STOP CLAIMING YOURSELVES AS VICTIMS OF MEN AND TAKE SOME RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF. STOP SAYING THAT MEN AND WOMEN DON'T NEED EACHOTHER BECAUSE WE DO. FOR A WOMAN WHO DOES NOT NEED A MAN MAKES IT SO THAT MEN DO NOT NEED WOMEN AND SO WE GO OUR SEPARATE WAYS WHICH IS A TERRIBLE THING. THIS IS A HORRABLE THING TO BE TEACHING PEOPLE.

MEN AND WOMEN DO NOT HAVE THE SAME STRENGTHS AS THE OTHER AND WE ARE SUPPOSED TO DO AND HAVE BEEN DESIGNED TO DO DIFFERENT THINGS IN A MATED PAIR BOND THAT IS THE WHOLE POINT OF HAVING TWO DIFFERENT SEXES.

Stop denying that through out evolutionary history women have NOT sought tall,strong,dominant,resorcfully successfull males and continue to do so to this day.

Stop denying that you look for the very thing in men that you are compaining about. men have always willingly given women the fruits of our labor and if asked why we will say it is because we love you. Stop denying a very simple concept called male male competition and female choice. It is all around you in the animal kingdom if you bother to take a look. Men are dominant over territory and resources because we have to be and we are willing to kill eachother to do it. Every line between countries on the face of the earth was drawn in the blood of men. All empires are built on the stacked bodies of dead boys. Stop denying that men do all these things against you and not for you. Yes that's right men do it all for you.

Stop mentioning that women are 40% more likely to be in poverty when 85% of the homeless are men.

STOP RALLYING AGAINST PEOPLE WHO ACTUALLY EVEN REMOTELY SUGGEST THAT WOMEN MAY INFACT NOT BE ENTERING ENGINEERING AND TECHNICAL OCCUPATIONS OF THE SCIENCES BECAUSE THEY MAY HAVE DIFFERENT ABILITIES AND GOD FORBID DIFFERENT INTERESTS THAN MEN. I GO TO THE BOOK STORE ALL THE TIME AND NEVER SEE WOMEN READING POPULAR MECHANICS MAGAZINE. I NEVER SEE WOMEN STANDING AROUND TALKING ABOUT HOW THINGS WORK AND THE FINER POINTS OF LCD AND PLASMA SCREEN TELEVISIONS. START LEARNING HOW THINGS WORK AND WORK ON AND FIX THEM YOURSELF IF YOUR INTERESTED. STOP FIRING PEOPLE LIKE THE PRESIDENT OF HARVARD, Lawrence Summers FOR SUGESTING ANY OF THIS WHILE IT IS OK FOR MAREEN DOWD A NEW YORK TIMES COLUBNIST TO WRITE BOOKS LIKE "ARE MEN NECESSARY" AND SPEAKS OF MEN GOING EXTINCT WHILE SITEING QUAKPOTS AND PSUEDO SCIENCE. BELIEVE ME IF A NEW YORK TIMES COLUBNIST THAT WAS A MAN WERE TO SUGGEST THAT WOMEN ARE GOING EXTINCT AND QUESTION THEIR VALUE TO EXIST WE WOULD ALL HEAR ABOUT IT.

I THINK YOU DO A GREAT DISSERVICE TO HUMANITY WHEN YOU DENY MODERN CONGNITIVE SCIENCEs. IN THIS DAY IN AGE WE ARE ABLE TO SEE BRAIN ACTIVITY AS IT IS HAPPENING AND HAVE PROVEN THAT MANY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN EXIST. I URGE YOU TO START TAKING AN ACTIVE INTEREST IN SCIENCE AND STOP REFERING TO IT AS "PROPAGANDA OF SOME PATRIACHY" HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT OUR CURRENT PLACE IN SOCIETY AND ALL THAT YOU SEE HAS COME FROM THE COLLECTIVE AND CONCIOUS EFFORT OF MEN TO OPPRESS WOMEN. IT'S OBSURED.

I URGE YOU TO PLEASE TAKE AN INTEREST IN EVOLUTIONARY PSYCHOLOGY AND EVOLUTIONARY BIOLOGY. TO COME OUT AND JOIN THE REST OF THE WORLD WITH SCIENTISTS LIKE SARAH HRDY, HELLEN FISHER, AND DAVID M BUSS,

YOU want equality, do away with alimony or what I like to call "woman support" for women that can work on their own.
If you leave a man he has no obligation to support you.


Feminsits have the saying "my body my choice" when men have no choice. We are shipped off to our deaths in war
to defend the territory and resources of our country
OR take responsibility for yourselves and serve your country when your needed and sign up for the DRAFT.

AS FAR AS ABORTION IS CONCERNED THE WHOLE IDEA IS TO ALLEVIATE YOURSELF FROM THE RESPONSIBILIY OF BRINGING A CHILD INTO THE WORLD AFTER CONCEPTION HAS TAKEN PLACE. AS WOMEN HAVE THE RIGHT TO KILL THE CHILD AT VARY LEAST MEN SHOULD HAVE THE OPTION TO ABORT RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE CHILD IN ANY FORM AS WELL AND A WOMAN CAN MAKE HER CHOICE ACCORDINGLY. CONCEPTION IS A MUTUAL THING NOT SOMETHING THAT A MAN DOES TO A WOMAN. HE HAS A RIGHT TO HAVE A VOICE IN THE ISSUE AND NOT FORCED TO CONCEIVE A CHILD.

STOP VIEWING SEX AND MAKING LOVE AS SOMETHING A MAN DOES TO YOU AND ANYTHING DONE TO PLEASURE A MAN AS DEMEANING TO WOMEN.

STOP SAYING YOU DON'T WANT US TO PROTECT AND PROVIDE FOR YOU AND START EARNING MENS TRUST BACK. WHO KNOWS WE MIGHT OPEN A DOOR FOR YOU.

Let the 90% of fathers who loose their children by default in divorce have the god given right to be a father

stop taking our children away from us in divorce and then call us dead beat dads. Many men only get to see their child 4 days a month. I don't call that fatherhood. Stop seeing us as walking wallets and expecting us to support children we are not allowed to be a father to. Although most men pay anyway and infact 46.9% of non-custodial mothers totally default on support. As opposed to the 26.9% of non-custodial fathers totally default on support. SO YOU TELL ME WHO IS THE DEADBEAT NOW!

Do away with biased scholorships, healthcare funding, government mandated contracts to a business just because it is owned by a woman. Many states have passed laws that give women affirmative action and some have struck it down but it is a constant battle against you feminists to hold onto OUR rights as men.

According to the cival rights act of 1964 discrimination by sex was outlawed so why do you attempt to end the so called discrimination against women with discrimination against men through affrimative action. The cival rights act has been thrown in the garbage.

Why do you say that women get paid 76 cents to every dollar a man makes when this statistic was compiled using a blanket approach by taking all the men and women in the workforce and adding up their wages. In reality women make 96 to 98 percent of what men make when doing the same job and I bet there is even more disparity in pay between men doing the same job.

STOP CONCENTRATING ON MONEY AND START LOBBYING FOR A FAMILY LEAVE ACT THAT GIVES MEN AND WOMEN PAID TIME OFF TO BE WITH THEIR CHILD. THE CANADIANS HAVE 6 MONTHS EACH FOR BOTH THE MAN AND THE WOMAN, PAID! WE DON'T EVEN HAVE ADAQUATE VACATION TIME IN THIS COUNTRY.


STOP SAYING THAT 1 IN 4 WOMEN ARE RAPED.
STOP inviting the label of rape victim to be applied to anyone who has ever drank too much, had a sexual encounter, and then regretted it later.

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELVES AND GET RID OF YOUR VICTIM MENTALITY. I DON'T KNOW HOW YOU DID IT BUT YOU MANAGED TO MAKE IT LAW THAT IF A MAN AND WOMAN ARE EQUALLY INTOXICATED BY ALCOHOL OR DRUGS AND END UP HAVING SEX THAT SOMEHOW IT IS HIS FAULT AND IT IS RAPE. MANY GOOD BOYS ARE ROTING IN PRISON BECAUSE OF THIS.


MEANWHILE A man convicted of murder is 20 times more likely to receive the death penalty than a woman convicted of murder. Since 1954 approximately 70,000 women have murdered 60,000 men but not one woman has been executed for killing only a man. Women do receive the death penalty but only men actually get executed and women get reprieve.

3 men are murdered for every women
Statisticly the more violent the crime the more likely the victim will be male. 94% of all violent crimes is committed against men. If you have not noticed most crime is done to aquire resources and is directly associated with poverty. In other words when men do not have an opportunity to vie for competitive advantage for resources we will aquire them through crime and most always against other men.

I URGE YOU ALL TO READ THE BOOK "THE MYTH OF MALE POWER" BY DR. WARREN FARRELL. YOU MIGHT REMEMBER HIM, HE WAS SAT ON THE BOARD OF THE NATIONAL ORGANIZATION OF WOMEN.

MY INSPIRATION COMES FROM A DEEP SEATED ANGER AND RESENTMENT AND PAIN I ENDURED WHILE ATTENDING A WOMAN'S STUDIES COURSE AT SADDLEBACK COMMUNITY COLLEGE IN MISSION VIEJO CALIFORNIA IN 2001. SINCE THEN I'VE BEEN TRYING TO FIND MY SELF AS A MAN AND MY ESSENTIAL NATURE BECAUSE I KNEW I WAS NOT WHAT WOMEN WERE SAYING I WAS.

PEOPLE OFTEN ASK THE QUESTION, IS CHIVALRY DEAD AND THE ANSWER IS YES. I CAN TELL YOU THIS BECAUSE FEMINISTS KILLED MY CHIVALRY. AND SINCE THAT COURSE I NEVER OPENED A DOOR FOR A WOMAN AND AM TRYING TO GET OVER MY FEELINGS OF EMBARASMENT WHEN DOING SO WHEN I OPEN IT FOR A GIRLFRIEND.